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Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by MerBear, Dec 12, 2014.

  1. MerBear

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    just want to have sex with someone, and not want a relationship?

    I keep having this problem. i just am getting over a recent heartbreak, and i don't want to date. i just want to have sex. i'm not ready for a relationship, nobody really is at my age anyway :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    There isn't anything wrong with casual sex. If you want to, then enjoy yourself.
     
  3. Aussie792

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    Why should harmless pleasure be wrong?
     
  4. MerBear

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    that's what i'm saying! and every girl i meet wants a relationship out of it, like they fucking expect something more after we have sex. wtf
     
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    Just make clear that you're not expecting anything more of it and that should be the end of it. It's wrong to mislead, but it sounds as if you're pretty open about what you want.
     
  6. Hexagon

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    Maybe you're looking in the wrong place. People after relationships are likely to use different channels than people looking for casual sex.
     
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    Like many other activities casual sex has its own set of risks & rewards. Be responsible. At best it can be exciting, satisfying, enjoyable & maybe even develop in to something more. Just don't let it get in the way of good relationships and play safe. As we all know, there's a lot of nasty STDs out there.
     
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    There is no harm in casual sex... actually it can be quite entertaining unless you follow two golden rules:

    - Always make your intention clear
    - Always practice safe sex*

    Don't listen what others say or what other girls want... it is your life. You will be the one who would be sorry if you don't live it by the way you like to live it.

    *Need to feel like open this up a bit. While probably protected agaist STD and unwanted pregnancy part might be open it also means be sure you can trust the guy you are going down with. Causal sex and blind ventures into unknown ain't same things.
     
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    It sounds okay. Lots of people have one night stands
     
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    No. Just make sure that whoever you're involved with understands this. I hear it can get complicated if it's not talked about.
     
  11. the haunted

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    Nope. Casual sex is a beauty of life, in my opinion.
     
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    No, It's not wrong. It's only wrong if you try to get it from someone you know wants a relationship and can't handle it, since it would be leading them on (not saying you did that though).

    What I would personally do is find a "dating" or hook-up site and make it clear what kind of things you're looking for.
     
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    Nah.
    As long as both are okay with it.
     
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    True to a point. Nice for recreation but nothing is better than being in love and sharing intimacy with that special person.
     
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    No, it's just a bit of fun :slight_smile:
     
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    Absolutely wrong, I say!

    How dare you want to do something, with somebody else, that brings pleasure and sensation to one another?!

    Heathens! All of you, heaaaaaaaathens~!




    Seriously, there's nothing wrong with it. If it is consensual, both parties know it's casual, and you're being safe and sensible, that is. Do what you do, baby girl.
     
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    If both partners realize it's just casual or no strings attached sex, I don't see what the problem is.
     
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    It's fine. I can't help it if people want to have sex with me. Geez.
     
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    Nothing wrong with it (as long as you are open about your intentions) :slight_smile:
     
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    no I think it's ok, it's no crime.