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HighintheClouds · 15th Oct 2008, 08:15 AM

So... Since it is said that the homosexual population in general is very promiscuous, I'm just going to post a poll over here to test out how true that stereotype really is...

For the sake of anonymity I'm just going to make the voting anonymous so that people won't feel embarrassed. Of course, if you want to talk about it, I have no qualms whatsoever.. (I don't know whether I should put a smiley here or not....)

HighintheClouds · 15th Oct 2008, 08:18 AM

Personally.. For me... I have had a sexual experience.. But it wasn't oral, neither was it anal.. But it did involve... ermm... touching of genitals... (I regret that in many ways [but then again.. it led me to accept who I am so.. it's good I suppose...]). In short. Mutual masturbation..

So I personally don't know whether to put myself as a virgin or not as I've still done something sexual... Perhaps some help...?

15th Oct 2008, 09:01 AM

I lost mine at 16. I'm def in a slutty phase, I've had sex with quite a few people since then. As for sex, it depends what you consider a "sexual experience" I consider it penetration, some may consider oral sex as losing their virginity, and you could even classify your experience as it. It's all open to interpretation.

15th Oct 2008, 09:13 AM

This year, 17.

Apocalypte · 15th Oct 2008, 10:22 AM

5 years ago, when I was 19.

15th Oct 2008, 02:02 PM

Eh it depends lol.
I guess 15, thats how old I was when I did 3/4 things.
I did all the important stuff on my 16th bday.
Oh well.
I had sex when I was 15, so 15.

Wander · 15th Oct 2008, 02:29 PM

Still a virgin here, but hopefully not for 25 more years.

15th Oct 2008, 02:30 PM

When I was 14 , couple of months ago,

Daniel · 15th Oct 2008, 02:31 PM

I could give birth to the messiah if I had a vai-jay-jay.

Time · 15th Oct 2008, 02:32 PM

14...

Derek the Wolf · 15th Oct 2008, 02:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daniel

I could give birth to the messiah if I had a vai-jay-jay.

Same here. lol.

Austin · 15th Oct 2008, 02:34 PM

I'm not counting oral sex so im a virgin.

15th Oct 2008, 04:00 PM

Virgin, and chances are it will be that way for a long time.

(And I'm not sure how I feel on that topic)

Janvier · 15th Oct 2008, 11:57 PM

I first had penetrative sex when I was 16 with my girlfriend and I lost my gay virginity when I was 17.

**Gerry** · 16th Oct 2008, 12:02 AM

Younger teenage years.

Psychedelic Bookmarks · 16th Oct 2008, 10:00 AM

I'm a virgin

As for whether you're a virgin, highintheclouds, that's a subjective thing, really. Do you feel like a virgin? Some would say that only penetration takes your virginity, but I think that's rubbish... if it is, I 'm not sure if I ever want to have sex

I would count your experience as sex, but it's all down to you... in the end, it doesn't really matter, so long as you're making choices that are right for you.

Pepsi · 16th Oct 2008, 12:41 PM

I'm a virgin actually I haven't even kissed someone yet, just haven't met any other gay guys who I would wanna kiss and honestly if the opportunity to have sex presented itself though I wouldn't be a virgin so the whole gay people being very promiscuous thing isn't really shot down by me

George · 17th Oct 2008, 06:36 PM

Virgin lol.

[pause]

A lot of people I know lost their virginity like when they were younger than me. And most of them were straight! XD

17th Oct 2008, 06:52 PM

Virgin here.

17th Oct 2008, 07:54 PM

ok i lost my virginity to a skank ass ho but i was like shit faced drunk so it wasnt my fault, it wa smy dads for lettin me take the girl in my room and do it, the next morning was terrible for me

View Poll Results: Have You Lost it Yet? And if So.. At What Age?
Virgin	67	59.29%
<12	3	2.65%
12	1	0.88%
13	4	3.54%
14	7	6.19%
15	4	3.54%
16	12	10.62%
17	6	5.31%
18	5	4.42%
19	2	1.77%
20	0	0%
21	0	0%
22	1	0.88%
23	0	0%
24	1	0.88%
25	0	0%
>25	0	0%
Voters: 113. You may not vote on this poll

15th Oct 2008, 08:15 AM	#1
HighintheClouds Well Met (Touché!) Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Tis only men I stare at. Out Status: I think rumours spread way too fast for my liking. Age: 21 Posts: 385 Join Date: Jun 2008	When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) So... Since it is said that the homosexual population in general is very promiscuous, I'm just going to post a poll over here to test out how true that stereotype really is... For the sake of anonymity I'm just going to make the voting anonymous so that people won't feel embarrassed. Of course, if you want to talk about it, I have no qualms whatsoever.. (I don't know whether I should put a smiley here or not....) __________________ 希望, Hope, Espoir, Esperanza, Speranza All these words.. All one meaning... We're all over the world. May we find this wherever we are.

15th Oct 2008, 08:18 AM	#2
HighintheClouds Well Met (Touché!) Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Tis only men I stare at. Out Status: I think rumours spread way too fast for my liking. Age: 21 Posts: 385 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) Personally.. For me... I have had a sexual experience.. But it wasn't oral, neither was it anal.. But it did involve... ermm... touching of genitals... (I regret that in many ways [but then again.. it led me to accept who I am so.. it's good I suppose...]). In short. Mutual masturbation.. So I personally don't know whether to put myself as a virgin or not as I've still done something sexual... Perhaps some help...? __________________ 希望, Hope, Espoir, Esperanza, Speranza All these words.. All one meaning... We're all over the world. May we find this wherever we are.

15th Oct 2008, 09:01 AM	#3
Midnight Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) I lost mine at 16. I'm def in a slutty phase, I've had sex with quite a few people since then. As for sex, it depends what you consider a "sexual experience" I consider it penetration, some may consider oral sex as losing their virginity, and you could even classify your experience as it. It's all open to interpretation.

15th Oct 2008, 09:13 AM	#4
The Enigmatic Guest Posts: n/a	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) This year, 17.

15th Oct 2008, 10:22 AM	#5
Apocalypte Ytse Jamming. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Dublin, Ireland Age: 27 Posts: 2,217 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) 5 years ago, when I was 19. __________________ "I like my beer cold...my TV loud...and my homosexuals flaming." - Homer Simpson

15th Oct 2008, 02:02 PM	#6
Kenny9210 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) Eh it depends lol. I guess 15, thats how old I was when I did 3/4 things. I did all the important stuff on my 16th bday. Oh well. I had sex when I was 15, so 15.

15th Oct 2008, 02:29 PM	#7
Wander Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Parents, aunts, grandma, counselor, online friends Location: Central Alabama Age: 18 Posts: 2,360 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) Still a virgin here, but hopefully not for 25 more years.

15th Oct 2008, 02:30 PM	#8
Latinokid Guest Posts: n/a	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) When I was 14 , couple of months ago,

15th Oct 2008, 02:31 PM	#9
Daniel the great cheese danish Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Buffalo, NY Age: 21 Posts: 2,874 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) I could give birth to the messiah if I had a vai-jay-jay. __________________ "Nobody can teach me who I am, who can describe parts of me, but who I am and what I need, these are things I have to find out myself." - Chunua Achebe

15th Oct 2008, 02:32 PM	#10
Time EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Arkansas Age: 18 Posts: 437 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) 14...

15th Oct 2008, 02:34 PM	#12
Austin Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Most people in my life. Location: Orange County, California, USA Age: 19 Posts: 1,790 Join Date: Apr 2008	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) I'm not counting oral sex so im a virgin. __________________ Can I sail through the changing ocean tides, can I handle the seasons of my life?

15th Oct 2008, 04:00 PM	#13
ColbieMarie Guest Posts: n/a	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) Virgin, and chances are it will be that way for a long time. (And I'm not sure how I feel on that topic)

15th Oct 2008, 11:57 PM	#14
Janvier يَناير Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: France Age: 22 Posts: 849 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) I first had penetrative sex when I was 16 with my girlfriend and I lost my gay virginity when I was 17. __________________ Uncertainty excites me.

16th Oct 2008, 12:02 AM	#15
Gerry We're all a little mad! EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Las Vegas Age: 24 Posts: 5,542 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) Younger teenage years. __________________ "Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality".-James Baldwin

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16th Oct 2008, 10:00 AM	#16
Psychedelic Bookmarks Helena Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Close family and quite a few friends Location: UK Age: 18 Posts: 2,195 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) I'm a virgin As for whether you're a virgin, highintheclouds, that's a subjective thing, really. Do you feel like a virgin? Some would say that only penetration takes your virginity, but I think that's rubbish... if it is, I 'm not sure if I ever want to have sex I would count your experience as sex, but it's all down to you... in the end, it doesn't really matter, so long as you're making choices that are right for you. __________________ "I refuse to recognize the terms hetero-, bi-, and homo-sexual. Everybody has exactly the same sexual needs. People are just sexual, the prefix is immaterial." (Morissey)

16th Oct 2008, 12:41 PM	#17
Pepsi R-Y-R-Y Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out Location: Staten Island, NYC Age: 20 Posts: 4,348 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) I'm a virgin actually I haven't even kissed someone yet, just haven't met any other gay guys who I would wanna kiss and honestly if the opportunity to have sex presented itself though I wouldn't be a virgin so the whole gay people being very promiscuous thing isn't really shot down by me __________________ "I'm not that typical baby. I'm a bad kid like my mom and dad made me. I'm not that cool and you hate me. I'm a bad kid, that's the way that they made me" - GAGA

17th Oct 2008, 06:36 PM	#18
George Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 19 Posts: 2,387 Join Date: Jul 2007	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) Virgin lol. [pause] A lot of people I know lost their virginity like when they were younger than me. And most of them were straight! XD

17th Oct 2008, 06:52 PM	#19
Defender Guest Posts: n/a	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) Virgin here.

17th Oct 2008, 07:54 PM	#20
W F I II Guest Posts: n/a	Re: When Did You Lose Your Virginity (If You Have...) ok i lost my virginity to a skank ass ho but i was like shit faced drunk so it wasnt my fault, it wa smy dads for lettin me take the girl in my room and do it, the next morning was terrible for me