I like to think that sexuality is a big part of us the way eyesight is. It's like this; no matter how you try, you will always see something that is red as ...well red. Is sexuality on the same scale of importance as eyesight? Or is it smaller or greater? Does anyone have a clue?
It's a quality I don't want to be judged on. People typically don't judge people for how good or bad their eyesight is. So really I'd say sexuality is greater at this point on that scale. Though i wish they were equal.
I see sexuality as being left handed or born with blue , green , or brown eyes . It's a big part of us but it's not the only part of us . But I think it's important to me .
It's a pretty big part of me. It's going to be the thing that changes my life for the better. I can't thank *whoever* or *whatever* made me this way enough. I'm not sure about anyone else though. It's a matter of opinion.
Thats a deep question! On a basic level though, depending on how you define "sexuality", humans would not exist without it (specifically sexual attraction) but we could certainly exist while blind. As far as sexual identity (who we are attracted to) is concerned, anything that society focuses so much energy on and we can be killed for not conforming to their opinions on, I'd say is VERY important! I'd say sexuality is much more important than eye color.
Yes it is. For some people it may be a bigger part, for some not. But either way it's a part of us which we can't ignore.
My bisexuality is a foundational part of me, because it's the part of me that I had to learn to accept and love. That hard process also taught me a greater degree of compassion and engendered in me a sense of protectiveness I would not have otherwise developed. And while my capacity to love people of many genders is an object of esteem for me, it's not the sole trait I hang my self worth on. What I hang my self worth on is my ability to be a protector. ~ Adrienne
I think that it is both important and unimportant. For example, if I wasn't gay, I would be a much different person, and that person would probably be a homophobe unfortunately. But it's unimportant because it's just a little strand in the tangled web of who we are.
Just a part of us not huge. Is it important? Yes However it's never should define us. The day you diminish yourself to being "gay" only, is the time you have to wake up and see the world for what it is and start learning let the world see who you really are. A bit confusing maybe?
