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Why you looking at me?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by The Virgo, Dec 20, 2014.

  1. The Virgo

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    Does anyone else ever go out in public and get people looking at them? No i don't mean weird looks but looks like " damn your cute" or "Wow your hot!" Whenever i go out i always seem to get guys and girls looking at me and start blushing. Sometimes i like having that feeling of some people like me but other times i feel its getting creepy
     
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    Lol, well, at least you know you look appealing :wink:

    My experiences are practically the opposite: nobody notices me. It can be nice though. I mean, even though it's an environment with lots of people, I feel that no one is specifically judging me. I love going to places like the mall, bookstores, the library, etc. because it feels like an escape from judgement from my parents, peers, teachers... Sadly I don't go out too often; unless it's for education purposes, I'm usually not allowed to leave the house.
     
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    Nope, just weird stare.
     
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    Yes, and then when they do, I just give them an angry, disapproving stare back :lol: :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Ya sometimes.
     
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    I've had before and it was really creepy. It probably has happened more times since then, but I have a tendency not to notice things like that unless it's painfully obvious. I don't like it when people stare at me in general. I find it very unnerving.
     
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    Quite often. Before I used to think people thought people were just judging me or I was doing something weird, but realizing thats not at all the case. Actually last week one time this girl was really focused on me for a few (felt the obvious staring with that 6th sense), then bursted out (quite a bit too loud for her liking) to her nearby friends "oh my god that guy over there is soo hot!" then the three of them look over, then I look up caught off-guard, then she was like "oh shit he heard me!" I just smiled politely and went back to my study guide for finals. Even though I'm gay it did make my day!

    Staring is creepy though otherwise, if you don't know why someone is doing so.
     
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    No, not really. Unless I'm out at night and there are loads of drunk French people around and then they'll stare shout and point "C'est David Luiz!" at me either because of my hair or their lack of creativity. Maybe both.

    But in normal circumstances I don't get much attention in public and I like it that way.
     
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    Mr Drop-dead-gorgeous having problems because he looks too good :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: (*hug*)
     
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    I get people look at me, but it's usually the more weirder type of stares. >.<
     
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    I went to a restaurant a few months back with a couple of friends and we got seated on a table next to 14 girls who were total strangers to us. They immediately started looking and pointing towards me so I smiled. Five minutes later one of them came over and asked if they could all have a picture with me and if I could say happy birthday to the girl who birthday it was so I reluctantly obliged. It was so weird. But kinda funny at the same time. I have no idea who or what they thought I was haha!
     
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    ^ This.

    But thinking about it, I'm actually happy that people find me interesting enough to stare, regardless of what they are thinking. Because I on the other hand, usually don't find them as interesting. I wish more cute boys looked at me, as it turns out however, not a lot would dare out of fear of being called gay. Some do, occasionally but only if there is no one around them.
     
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    You were and are a hot guy, silly. :grin:
     
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    Those girls want to be with me, those guys want to be me. It's a hard life.
     
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    I get weird looks mainly.

    It's rare that I get the 'You're cute' look and when it happens I rarely notice it. Sometimes a friend I am with has alerted me to it and I was totally oblivious to it.
     
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    Being drop-dead gorgeous is such a burden, don't you all understand?
     
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    I don't tend to notice.
     
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    I feel your pain Aussie, I suffer it every single day. :grin:
     
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    I rather not be notice because when people do it is usually followed by eww he ugly.
     
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    No not really!

    Good for you though!!