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Other cultures

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by potofsoup, Dec 21, 2014.

  1. potofsoup

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    Hi guys :slight_smile:

    Suppose if you have a partner/boyfriend/girlfriend of another race (interracial),

    will you be interested to learn about their culture and celebrate their festivals with them? :slight_smile:

    eg.

    Chinese - Chinese New Year

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    Indian - Diwali

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    Mexican - Dia de los muertos etc.

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    As for me, I'm an Asian and I really look forward to celebrating Christmas and other festivals with my future partner (hopefully if I can find him :slight_smile: )
     
  2. AlamoCity

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    Depends. I have Mexican heritage in me and I don't know much about Dia de Los Muertos :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:, nor do I have family members who celebrate it. Ok, technically I do have knowledge about it, but I learned about it in school and from an academic standpoint; it wasn't handed down to me. I suppose it depends on how "Americanized" the person is.

    That said, if I dated someone who had a different cultural background, I'd make it my duty to learn about it. Plus, it's bound to bring me massive brownie points with the in-laws.
     
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    Since I have almost no respect for my own traditions/culture, I'd most probably adopt those of my hypothetical boyfriend. Seeing as I'm never getting one, I tend to not worry about such stuff right now.

    While I do see how these things might play a role in a relationship, I don't necessarily agree that they should.
     
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    I have always liked other cultures, and have had many friends from other cultures. Thus, I have always respected and celebrated their events if in a position to do so. If I love their cuisine, then I'll celebrate it even more. If I don't like their cuisine, then I'll at least learn about the cultural aspects. I often wonder if people are offended that there are certain dishes I will not eat. C'est la vie.
     
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    I personally love culture and history and I enjoy learning about new traditions and such. Even when the ethnic background isnt large I still enjoy learning celebrating different things that my partner does. It allows me to get closer to them and also get to know them better.
     
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    Honestly... I think it would be awfully rude of a partner to not care about their cultures at all. That is a big part of their life, you kinda have to accept it. If you don't want to take part in other cultures, you shouldn't date a foreigner. At least that's what I think...

    That being said, I love learning about different cultures. I would love to date someone from a foreign country and learn and take part in different cultural activities.
     
  7. Tardis2020

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    Of course. Why not?
     
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    I think it's awesome to experience other cultures and like to do it as much as possible! My ex was Chinese and I got to experience a lot of his family's traditions (including a Buddhist funeral and a wedding). My current bf is half Indian but he hates his Indian side so I don't get to do any of that stuff with him unfortunately.
     
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    I'm Cuban-American, but my two exes were Mexican. They weren't too into their own cultures, but they still taught me Mexican slang or traditions. I loved learning everything I could about them so culture is no exception. On my side, I love sharing Cuban culture with people, so without a doubt I'd immerse my boyfriend in Cuban culture :slight_smile:.
     
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    I would assume I'd know quite a bit about somebody, before I made the decision to date them, which includes being aware of how attached/active they are towards their culture.

    But to answer the question, I'm down. I like learning, if it isn't a chore or a bore. I suspect, in this situation, there would be a desire to want to be involved, if it really meant that much to them. I'm not going to dismiss something like that.
     
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    Of course I'd be interested. I'd love to familiarize myself with their cultural practices, if they were different from mine. But my boyfriend is just as white bread as I am--nothing foreign and interesting here -_-
     
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    Well, I used to live in a super huge city where there were dozens of other cultures right at my doorstep. I was forced to learn about their culture.

    I'd be more than happy to learn their culture, language, etc. Absolutely :grin:
     
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    Well, I suspect my partner to want to know about my culture. I mean....who has dated a gypsy? I'm like a freaking unicorn or something.
     
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    I love learning about new cultures... don't need a boyfriend for that.

    The day I learned Boxing Day is not about everyone wandering around with boxin gloves and punch each other kinda kill the some fun in it but... world full of many surprises.
     
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    I would be interested only if that was something my partner was into. Some people come from a culture but are not really in touch with it/do not want to associate with it. I would find that out before I get too into the culture itself. If my partner does associate with it, learning about new cultures is always interesting, and participating is usually really fun.
     
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    I love cultures! I'd probably be the one introducing new things though, since I'm mixed race. >_<
     
  17. potofsoup

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    Thanks for your replies guys :slight_smile: They are very positive :slight_smile: Cultural exchange is really interesting :slight_smile:
     
  18. JackAttack

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    I always take an interest in other cultures so yes I would.
     
  19. potofsoup

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    Thanks for your reply JackAttack :slight_smile: