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Crushes on people younger than you

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  1. XenaxGabby

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    So I've recently become infatuated with a celebrity. No big deal. It's been a few months since anyone new has entered my mind. So I decided to look up her age and was freaked out to learn that she is 17. Now I feel like a pervert. Has anyone on here crushed on someone a little too young? I know she's a celebrity so it's not THAT big of a deal but I feel dirty.
     
    #1 XenaxGabby, Dec 22, 2014
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    I have crushes on people younger than me and one is a celeb and my friend says if I keep it up I'm gonna go to jail .:tears:
     
    #2 stocking, Dec 22, 2014
  3. C06122014

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    Yes…but I didn't know!!! So it wasn't my fault!!! Right :eek: he was only a year younger not even a year! Like six months at most! So that's ok right?
     
    #3 C06122014, Dec 22, 2014
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    I was a senior and he was a first year. It was in highschool, so it was a three year difference but I still felt creepy :/
     
    #4 HM03, Dec 22, 2014
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    Yes.. and I feel even creepier then you would most likely! Because this girl is in real life and she was 13 and I was 17! Oh my fucking god I immediately cut off every single thought or feeling I had.. I'm not a fucking pedo! I never wanted to do anything sexual with this *cringes* KID! She was just cute is all!

    Oh god I feel like such a creep.
     
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    It's a challenge than I think it is. But yeah it's just crushes easy to replace..easy to get over with. It's a one sided love anyway.
     
    #6 JessRae, Dec 22, 2014
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    I've had one on a guy one year below me. Wasn't that big of a gap, but I still felt weird.
     
    #7 Tai, Dec 22, 2014
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    I guess I am a bit lucky on that department. My brain automaticly see anyone below 30 as kids.

    I can see if person is handsome/hot just like I see if a woman is beautifull/hot on my standarts but that is it. On top of that, for this site, if I say any young men in this site they are handsome, I say it with bit of pride... like I am saying it to my little brother/nephew.... cause I see them that way.
     
    #8 White Knight, Dec 22, 2014
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    One time I experienced this in the past.
    She was 16 (maybe the first time I met her still 15) and I was 18, I guess. But that's not a huge gap, so it was not a big deal for me.
     
    #9 STM29, Dec 22, 2014
  10. Fallingdown7

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    I had a crush on a 14 year old when I was 19. It was not sexual or physical at all; it was an innocent puppy crush because we were such close friends. I felt HORRIBLE about it. But it was easy to fall for her when I looked up to her.

    Of course I'd never act on anything like that. All of my exes were in their 20's.
     
    #10 Fallingdown7, Dec 22, 2014
  11. Sepulse

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    Yeah and I feel like a pedophile. I also get attracted to people who are older. For some reason people my age are just not attractive to me.
     
    #11 Sepulse, Dec 23, 2014
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    I'm more likely to have crushes on people older than me! :lol:
     
    #12 Black Raven, Dec 23, 2014
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    This = me in high school. Ugh, bad feelings throughout.

    My crush at 13 had just gone into puberty, and I even felt creepy then...
     
    #13 heyguyswhatsup, Dec 23, 2014
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    Quite often I get crushes on younger than me, celebrity and in real life (people I know and randomers you see walking down the street etc). I'm 27 and find myself often attracted to guys 7 - 10 years younger than me. I also like my own age too and a bit older. But I sometimes feel like I'm a creep when I find myself attracted to younger than 21.
     
    #15 badluckfairy, Dec 23, 2014
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    I can relate much. I'm currently 20 and my celebrity crush is 18. He is so cute omg. But when in real life, I avoid having crushes with the younger ones, idk, i prefer someone my age or older.
     
    #16 JayR, Dec 23, 2014
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    I actually had a little bit of a crush on a singer based on their voice and album cover... then found out they were only 18. Crush died down but I still love their music!

    But in real life I tend to go for around the same age as me or older.
     
    #17 Haim, Dec 23, 2014
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    You know Maisie Williams, who plays Arya Stark in Game Of Thrones? I have A MASSIVE crush on her, only her character is 14, but she is 17 years old in real life!!

    Bit of a mind f*ck, and i have no idea whether to be ashamed or not… though I don't really fancy Arya, just maisie maisie maisie who totally sets off my gaydar (just saying…) even though it's probably just as wishtheyweregaydar...
     
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    Well one of my current crushes is two years younger than me... is that bad? I'm 15 so...

    Otherwise crushes for me seem to range from my age to mid/late-20's guys. I guess I'm more into guys that are mature, other than this one guy I've never liked anyone younger.
     
    #19 shadowraptor, Dec 23, 2014
  20. XenaxGabby

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    Thanks for the replies:slight_smile: It's weird because the majority of my celebrity crushes are aged 30 and up.
     
    #20 XenaxGabby, Dec 23, 2014
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