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BeautifulStranger · 19th Oct 2008, 03:41 PM

So I'm leaving tomorrow to spend the week with Sal, my boyfriend

We were on Skype talking and I told him I was leaving to shower since I was getting up early tomorrow. Which was totally cool... he told me to call back once I was finished.

Anyways, I'm out of the shower and I had packed my bags, and I get back on Skype, only to find out he's talking to his best friend Natalie. Which again, was totally cool and no big deal. He tells me they'd only be talking for a few more minutes.

2 hours later he tells me he's finished... and he can't call because his host-family asked him to be more quiet... which is the only reason he ended his conversation with Natalie in the first place.

And now he's being completely unapologetic. I sat here for 2 fucking hours waiting for something that wasn't going to happen. I'm completely floored by his obliviousness right now. He's acting like I shouldn't be mad about wasting 2 hours of my time which I could've spent doing something else...

I fucking hate guys

19th Oct 2008, 03:45 PM

awww im sorry to hear that

Paralyzer · 19th Oct 2008, 03:53 PM

heheh... i know what you mean :/

BeautifulStranger · 19th Oct 2008, 03:54 PM

And thinking about why I'm so mad... I realize it isn't even about whether or not he had the courtesy to say something to me. I don't get mad over such stupid things. Besides, I had a lovely two hours watching videos on YouTube and researching people like Christine Ebersole...

I now realize I'm so upset because I don't even know if he likes me.

Not once have I heard him call me his boyfriend. As far as I know, I don't exist to anyone of his friends back in the US, whereas all of my friends know about him. I'm pretty sure that when you like someone, you share them with the people you care about.

I feel like right now that I'm here to occupy his time for the year. Because he couldn't meet any other gay guys in Germany, I'm it.

Paralyzer · 19th Oct 2008, 04:04 PM

omfg.. once again.. i know exactly what you mean :[[[

19th Oct 2008, 04:18 PM

you should talk to him about it

simon · 19th Oct 2008, 04:24 PM

i say you need to talk to him about it as it is not fair on you

BeautifulStranger · 19th Oct 2008, 04:27 PM

We currently are

And we have a big break through!!

He just completely admitted to me that I am his secret!!

(This is said in a sarcastically thrilled tone)

simon · 19th Oct 2008, 04:34 PM

unless he isn't out then what is the need to hied you?

BeautifulStranger · 19th Oct 2008, 04:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by simon

unless he isn't out then what is the need to hied you?

At first, the reason was Jermaine, his ex-sorta-still-boyfriend

But Jermaine just sent him a message saying how much he hated Sal and was so glad that he was out of his life.

So there really isn't a reason now.

19th Oct 2008, 04:39 PM

I could relate to how you feel. And ..more in a way where you like someone but they don't like you back and just like play you. It is not fun and in my case I just pulled the plug and finished it and was done. I hope things work out for you. It's not fun being mad =(. *HUG*

19th Oct 2008, 04:40 PM

theres got to be a reason if he's doing it

BeautifulStranger · 19th Oct 2008, 04:48 PM

He asked me if it really bothered me, and my response was 'Of course'

He said he just prefered it that way. And in response to my questioning of whether or not he liked me, he said, 'If you honestly think that you're fucking stupid'

19th Oct 2008, 04:55 PM

sounds like he's avoiding the reason why he's keeping you a secret

simon · 19th Oct 2008, 04:56 PM

that could be taken two ways i hope he knows.

19th Oct 2008, 03:41 PM	#1
BeautifulStranger GaGa's Knight in Flaming Armor Full Member Gender: 여왕 Orientation: Boys Boys Boys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Jukjeon-dong, Yongin-si Age: 20 Posts: 1,823 Join Date: Aug 2007	I hate guys... So I'm leaving tomorrow to spend the week with Sal, my boyfriend We were on Skype talking and I told him I was leaving to shower since I was getting up early tomorrow. Which was totally cool... he told me to call back once I was finished. Anyways, I'm out of the shower and I had packed my bags, and I get back on Skype, only to find out he's talking to his best friend Natalie. Which again, was totally cool and no big deal. He tells me they'd only be talking for a few more minutes. 2 hours later he tells me he's finished... and he can't call because his host-family asked him to be more quiet... which is the only reason he ended his conversation with Natalie in the first place. And now he's being completely unapologetic. I sat here for 2 fucking hours waiting for something that wasn't going to happen. I'm completely floored by his obliviousness right now. He's acting like I shouldn't be mad about wasting 2 hours of my time which I could've spent doing something else... I fucking hate guys __________________ Co-Founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club EC's official Diva Extraordinaire Future 'Mr. Kellan Lutz' "Since women have vaginas, they also have drama to fill the void."

19th Oct 2008, 03:45 PM	#2
Urman Guest Posts: n/a	Re: I hate guys... awww im sorry to hear that

19th Oct 2008, 03:53 PM	#3
Paralyzer Steven Brightside Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Friendly Out Status: A lot Location: Virginia Age: 20 Posts: 1,091 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: I hate guys... heheh... i know what you mean :/ __________________ every line on your face makes a beautiful maze for my eyes to trace

19th Oct 2008, 03:54 PM	#4
BeautifulStranger GaGa's Knight in Flaming Armor Full Member Gender: 여왕 Orientation: Boys Boys Boys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Jukjeon-dong, Yongin-si Age: 20 Posts: 1,823 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: I hate guys... And thinking about why I'm so mad... I realize it isn't even about whether or not he had the courtesy to say something to me. I don't get mad over such stupid things. Besides, I had a lovely two hours watching videos on YouTube and researching people like Christine Ebersole... I now realize I'm so upset because I don't even know if he likes me. Not once have I heard him call me his boyfriend. As far as I know, I don't exist to anyone of his friends back in the US, whereas all of my friends know about him. I'm pretty sure that when you like someone, you share them with the people you care about. I feel like right now that I'm here to occupy his time for the year. Because he couldn't meet any other gay guys in Germany, I'm it. __________________ Co-Founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club EC's official Diva Extraordinaire Future 'Mr. Kellan Lutz' "Since women have vaginas, they also have drama to fill the void."

19th Oct 2008, 04:04 PM	#5
Paralyzer Steven Brightside Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Friendly Out Status: A lot Location: Virginia Age: 20 Posts: 1,091 Join Date: Feb 2008	Re: I hate guys... omfg.. once again.. i know exactly what you mean :[[[ __________________ every line on your face makes a beautiful maze for my eyes to trace

19th Oct 2008, 04:18 PM	#6
Myke Guest Posts: n/a	Re: I hate guys... you should talk to him about it

19th Oct 2008, 04:24 PM	#7
simon Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: paraparaumu, new zealand Age: 22 Posts: 192 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: I hate guys... i say you need to talk to him about it as it is not fair on you __________________ damn it Tammy, not again Y, R, P in position! it's show time guys resident of Tar Valon

19th Oct 2008, 04:27 PM	#8
BeautifulStranger GaGa's Knight in Flaming Armor Full Member Gender: 여왕 Orientation: Boys Boys Boys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Jukjeon-dong, Yongin-si Age: 20 Posts: 1,823 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: I hate guys... We currently are And we have a big break through!! He just completely admitted to me that I am his secret!! (This is said in a sarcastically thrilled tone) __________________ Co-Founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club EC's official Diva Extraordinaire Future 'Mr. Kellan Lutz' "Since women have vaginas, they also have drama to fill the void."

19th Oct 2008, 04:34 PM	#9
simon Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: paraparaumu, new zealand Age: 22 Posts: 192 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: I hate guys... unless he isn't out then what is the need to hied you? __________________ damn it Tammy, not again Y, R, P in position! it's show time guys resident of Tar Valon

19th Oct 2008, 04:39 PM	#11
Latinokid Guest Posts: n/a	Re: I hate guys... I could relate to how you feel. And ..more in a way where you like someone but they don't like you back and just like play you. It is not fun and in my case I just pulled the plug and finished it and was done. I hope things work out for you. It's not fun being mad =(. HUG

19th Oct 2008, 04:40 PM	#12
Myke Guest Posts: n/a	Re: I hate guys... theres got to be a reason if he's doing it

19th Oct 2008, 04:48 PM	#13
BeautifulStranger GaGa's Knight in Flaming Armor Full Member Gender: 여왕 Orientation: Boys Boys Boys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Jukjeon-dong, Yongin-si Age: 20 Posts: 1,823 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: I hate guys... He asked me if it really bothered me, and my response was 'Of course' He said he just prefered it that way. And in response to my questioning of whether or not he liked me, he said, 'If you honestly think that you're fucking stupid' __________________ Co-Founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club EC's official Diva Extraordinaire Future 'Mr. Kellan Lutz' "Since women have vaginas, they also have drama to fill the void."

19th Oct 2008, 04:55 PM	#14
Myke Guest Posts: n/a	Re: I hate guys... sounds like he's avoiding the reason why he's keeping you a secret

19th Oct 2008, 04:56 PM	#15
simon Well Known Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: paraparaumu, new zealand Age: 22 Posts: 192 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: I hate guys... that could be taken two ways i hope he knows. __________________ damn it Tammy, not again Y, R, P in position! it's show time guys resident of Tar Valon

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