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Ideal Date

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by The Virgo, Dec 28, 2014.

  1. The Virgo

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    I'm in a romantic mood :kiss: What are some of you guys ideal first date?

    Mine would be a lovely homemade italian meal on the balcony. Then cuddling while watching a movie then a walk around the park :icon_redf
     
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    Maybe a picnic. ^^ Idk really, I don't know much about dating. I hope when I start dating, the girl I'm with will be the one to decide where we go. :lol:
     
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    First date? Hmmmmmmmmmm

    Idk, I'm not hard to please. Anything simple and cute. Even just dinner or something.....I guess a kiss at the end sounds cute. :3
     
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    The first ever date I went on, I took him to the aquarium. A strange choice, I know... but in hindsight I like it, it sort of suits my personality.
     
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    My perfect date would go to a cafe and then walk to a library.
     
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    Yeah, I guess I agree with this. ^.^
     
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    I don't know, but something that gives us time to talk and get to know each other without too many distractions around. I think a nice dinner and then going for a long walk sounds nice but I have nothing to compare it to.

    You and your sharks. :wink:
     
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    Watching a movie and cuddling sounds great. :thumbsup:
     
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    Go to an expensive luxurious romantic dinner that I don't have to pay for.
     
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    I always like either a movie or the theater and then going out afterward for dinner or dessert or coffee. It gives you time to talk but also gives you something to talk about, just in case...
     
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    it depends on the person.

    dinner and lettin' the night roll!
     
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    I actually really like this :grin:

    I'm easy to please, so anything really. But the less 'generic' date idea the date is the cuter :3
     
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    I'm not sure. I think the really general form of food and cuddling would be fine.
     
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    Maybe an ice-skating rink? I fall over all the time so it would be interesting to see how my date reacts...

    If we're dating... maybe something like bungee jumping, I have this feeling that after you've done something dangerous or when you have you seen someone scared, they're 100x more beautiful to you...

    Maybe a homemade dinner? I'm not a pro-chef but I'm alright...

    I don't really know... I've never been on a date... and I've never been successful in asking anyone out.
     
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    Get my buddy to fly us out to some secluded island around Toronto. Bring some coffee, a french press and my stove; brew some up, maybe hike/fish for a while, get some head, then fly back to the city for a burrito and session.
     
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    A meal and a movie together, but probably not in a theater, so we can still get lots of talking down. Good, fun, comfortable date. It's not original, but it's lovely.

    My dream date, though, is probably going ice-skating with someone who skates well.
     
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    A first date? No idea; haven't ever been on one.

    I know an ideal date though would be an amusement park one with someone who loves to ride roller coasters, etc. like I do:

    - We obviously could ride rides together and have a blast with that

    - If someone wanted 'to be sweet', we could play games and win prize(s) for each other, also a bit of fun

    - We could use the time walking around, sitting down in a cafe, blah blah blah to chat about stuff to get to know each other better(there are even a few quieter paths/spots at such places if need be)

    Too many distractions you say? Uh...that's kind of the point? I'm someone who feels a lot more at ease in this type of situation(getting to know someone new-ish) if I have other stuff going on around me, so I don't feel like all the attention is on me(even if that is the point of a date, it casts a sort of illusion otherwise; something like even going to some place for a drink would work, where others are talking and doing stuff around, but you did say ideal).

    Something like this also, imo, would make the idea of doing something next time like just hanging at home playing videogames/watching something with a home-cooked meal all the more appealing because we'd be relieved to really have some 'true alone time finally'.
     
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    Go out for coffee and chat. Definitely not somewhere busy though. I like getting to know people on the first date rather than doing something like eating or watching a movie. If you're eating or watching a movie, you can't really chat.
     
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    sitting on the sand while watching the sunset, one hand with a bottle of cold beer while the other holding her hand.. we were just there communicating, reminiscing the past and talking about our future..
     
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    .. surely never on a first date? :eek: