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Was there a crush that made you realize your sexuality?

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  1. anonymous95

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    Was there a certain crush that made you realize your sexuality?

    Personally, there was a girl that worked at the same camp as me. I didn't realize that I had feelings for her until after I finished working at the camp, and I never was able to get close to her. I regret not asking her to hang out or asking for her number, but I was too confused to realize the regret at that moment. She was smart, strong, pretty, and just an awesome person in general, but I missed my chance. But she made me start to question my sexuality, and I'm somewhat thankful for her, because I'm not sure how long it would have been until I realized that I may be bi.

    Anyways, what about you all?(&&&)
     
    #1 anonymous95, Dec 30, 2014
  2. Sapphire

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    Yup, there certainly was... I still have some feels for him, even though I haven't seen in in real life in four years.
     
    #2 Sapphire, Dec 30, 2014
  3. YuriBunny

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    Yup. For a couple years I'd thought I was just bi, but then she made me question myself all over again.
     
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    Yeah, well I fell in love with a girl that made me realise that I don't only like guys...
     
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    Yeah, most definitely.
     
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    yep and when I told him he harassed the shit out of me for a few months in Middle school until some mutual friends stood up to him.
     
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    Yes, my current crush. xD :icon_redf
     
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    yesss. exactly the same situation as you had. except we were both campers, not counselors. but other than that, 100000% right on.
     
    #8 shostakobitch, Dec 30, 2014
  9. Sepulse

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    There was a crush that helped me accept my sexuality. Before that crush I kind of knew about my sexuality, but I didn't accept it.
     
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    yes and no. i'm still confuddled as to my sexuality, although i'm more confident than ever about being 98% gay, 2% pan, i still find myself attracted to the same guy i was attracted to when i thought i was mostly straight (sadly he is straight)
     
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    Yes! Even when I was really young I had some physical interest in other guys, but it wasn't until I was 17 or 18 that I got to know this amazing guy online (and later in person) and realized I wasn't straight. I don't think I was in denial prior to that, but before that point the thought of kissing another boy or potentially falling in love with one didn't seem plausible to me. Now I can't get it off my mind. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    He's straight, but I consider being honest with him and getting to know him one of the best decisions I've ever made in my life. We don't talk that frequently anymore, but I know I can trust him with anyone and he probably knows more about me and the way that I think than anybody else.
     
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    I was married (for the 2nd time!) and saw this woman across the room and it was like I'd been hit with a lightning bolt. At that point I had no idea that there was even a possibility I was a lesbian! It took me 10 years and the encouragement of a good friend to have the nerve to go for it, but eventually we ended up together.
     
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    Yep. And at about age 13-14. I went to a huge school, maybe 700 students per grade, but it was odd: I generally just had a crush on maybe 1 or 2 boys/year, and oddly felt nothing towards most of the others. And then, there was the fact I never had any crushes on girls. So by 16 it was pretty clear to me...and there were two boys in particular that I still wonder about, and if I'd had the courage to ask. But at that time, nobody ever did. (1980s)
     
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    No, not really. I've had many male crushes but I didn't think much of it.
     
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    Yes. She's dead to me now, and I am dead to her.
     
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    yep.... *shrugs*

    That's all ive got to say about that.
     
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    My best friend. *sigh* If only he liked me back.
     
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    Yes, but it was a celebrity crush and not a person I actually knew. I remember when I first saw Jesse McCartney on a Disney commercial. I was completely entranced with absolutely no idea why :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I honestly don't recall how I realised my sexuality

    For a couple years I've had a crush on a beautiful girl at school (never gonna make a move), and I don't recall ever having any big same sex crushes. I think, just one day, I decided I'm gay :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    In Middle School, there was a football player that I had "weird" feelings for...
    And whenever he took his shirt off in P.E, my eyes were glued on him...
    It took a while, but I soon realized that those weird feelings were attraction, and that I was G-A-Y..
     
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