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Am i the only one who prefer using my imagination over watching porn?

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  1. Straight ally

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    I cannot say i have not watched porn, but it has something i dont like, something i would describe as a bad aftertaste.

    If i want visual stimulus i prefer sexy pics of people at facebook... (Some people post very very sexy pics of them at facebook). Or in any case i prefer an R movie with some nudity in it, rather than watching porn.

    But anyhow, using my imagination and fantasizing sexualy about people i have seen(specialy people i have seen recently/have been seeing at least once a week), beats anything else.

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    So, anyone else with a....rather active imagination.
     
  2. The Virgo

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    I like both, I guess using your imagination would mean you get what you want really. Porn is good but meh its really a hit and miss now with your imagination you can have whatever person you want do whatever you want :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I'd say neither personally, but I could see why you'd prefer imagination obviously.
     
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    I do need porn personally, with nothing it doesn't go well. Pictures are Ok but porn is a helper
     
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    I think imagination is better because you can imagine whatever you want. And I have a very active and vivid imagination. But if someone doesn't have so good an imagination, that would be reason for them to prefer porn.
     
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    I use my imagination as well. I like being able to imagine whatever I want as opposed to only being able to work with what porn has to offer. I can fantasize about people in my actual life. It makes the experience that much more enjoyable.
     
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    I think most people probably use their imagination even when watching porn. People probably think along the lines of "If I was him I wouldn't do that, I'd do this instead", "or thats nice, but imagine doing this" and get off on that. The imagination is always going to be involved to some extent with porn, if people can't "empathise" or imagine being/seeing/touching they'd probably struggle to be aroused.
     
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    Sometimes I use porn, sometimes my imagination alone, sometimes pictures, sometimes literary erotica, sometimes some combination of all of these, switching from one to the other over an extended period of time. Depends on my mood and how much time I have to play.

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    Depends on the mood, but my imagination is more commonly a go to~ Hentai manga is fun though, I started reading those for the stories alone a long time ago, there can be some really interesting and unique stories in hentai manga... Stuff you honestly couldn't read anywhere else... xD
     
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    I'm not a big fan of porn and have trouble finding it arousing. I do, however, like erotica fiction as much as I do my own fantasies. I guess the written word allows me to fill in the blanks with my imagination, whereas porn just seems... crude and too blatant.

    Porn also seems unrealistic -- I've never had sex, but porn doesn't seem the best way to inform myself on what it's like. Or if it is that way, then sex is not really something I'd love. I'm not comfortable with the way it portrays people.

    I definitely prefer movies with some sex scenes to porn and its focus on genitals and objectifying people. And I prefer my imagination to both of those, though I don't fantasize about real-life people, as that leaves me feeling as uncomfortable as porn does.
     
  11. Fallingdown7

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    I use porn + my imagination. Which is why I like gay male porn. I'm too visual to just imagine, but at the same time, I'm not attracted to the guys doing it so I can just use imagination to pretend they are other people while the scenery helps me out :'3
     
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    Imagination is amazing and much better for me too
     
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    My imagination I use the most and I have a really great one.. although porn probably gets me aroused the quickest depending on my luck in finding a good video. Lit-erotica is also really good except porn is just easier, and same with manga although again it depends.

    Oh and pictures work well too.. although I guess I don't really have that any more. Same with when girls tell you what they would do to you on the phone.. especially if they have a sexy voice. That's all over now, but it worked well when me and my ex talked on the phone.. lol
     
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    My imagination is very creepy.

    Seriously, my Id would make most of you seem like Christian fundamentalist prudes in comparison.
     
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    I need porn most of the time but I can still use my imagination but I have porn addiction that has gone down hill .:icon_sad:
    Still trying to quit .
     
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    I used to for a while, but discovered more things and more excitement in porn.
     
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    Nope... Imagination + erotic literature > porn.
     
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    I like to mix it up. I mean it's no fun jerking off to the same thing over and over every time. Sometimes I go with videos, sometimes pics, sometimes yaoi, sometimes written stuff, sometimes just fantasy, etc. Honestly if your good at it, imagination can be alot more effective, since you can make it perfect and everything
     
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    I enjoy using my imagination as well but it only works if I have abstained from masturbating for at least a week as i am more sensitive.
     
  20. Sepulse

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    I enjoy porn sometimes, but I hate how girls in porn act. I sometimes enjoy reading stories, but I hate when they describe the characters too much. I might imagine that one girl is a sexy blonde, but they spoil it for me by mentioning she's a brunette.