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Love Language Profile

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Randy, Jan 1, 2015.

  1. Randy

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    Before I left for break, I was sitting in my friend's room and, all of a sudden, we were talking about our top two love languages. My RA asked my what my love languages are. I had no idea what he was talking about so I Googled it (I was kind of interested in what they were talking about) and I took the quiz. It was very interesting and I can tell you my results were quite on point and really make sense with what I enjoy in a relationship and whatnot. That being said, my top two are: Quality Time and Words of Affirmation. Furthermore, my scores are: 9 - Quality Time, 7 - Words of Affirmation, 6 - Acts of Service, 4 - Physical Touch, 4 - Receiving Gifts.

    Interested in what your love languages are? Link is located here: Language Profile | The 5 Love Languages®
     
  2. soulcatcher

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    Mine are French and Chinese.
     
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    11 Physical Touch
    9 Quality Time
    4 Acts of Service
    3 Receiving Gifts
    3 Words of Affirmation

    Hm, interesting. ^.^
     
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    That was a fun quiz :grin:
    I got:

    8 Physical Touch
    7 Words of Affirmation
    6 Quality Time
    5 Acts of Service
    4 Receiving Gifts
     
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    11 Physical Touch
    10 Quality Time
    5 Words of Affirmation
    4 Acts of Service
    0 Receiving Gifts

    It's interesting. I'll be curious how much variation there is in people's scores. Unlike with a lot of these kind of tests on almost every single question the answer seemed really obvious to me--like enough so that I often found myself thinking: would anyone actually pick the other one?
     
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    12 Words of Affirmation
    6 Physical Touch
    6 Quality Time
    4 Acts of Service
    2 Receiving Gifts

    Interesting.
     
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    8 Acts of Service
    7 Physical Touch
    7 Quality Time
    7 Words of Affirmation
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    Seems all right. I know I'd like to handle things for others, especially if they're in over their head, stressed out, or have too much going on. Of course, this also puts me in that exact situation, or could...

    I seem fairly balanced. I think...
     
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    10 Words of Affirmation
    9 Acts of Service
    6 Quality Time
    5 Physical Touch
    0 Receiving Gifts

    In other words, if you want to speak my language of love, then you are going to have to tell me how much you love me and worship the ground I walk on, followed by doing shit for me, then spending quality time with me, preferably while cuddling or having sex, and by the end of it all I'll be understanding if you are too tired to provide me with gifts of tribute. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: :lol:
     
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    10 Words of Affirmation
    8 Physical Touch
    7 Quality Time
    5 Acts of Service
    0 Receiving Gifts
     
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    8 - acts of service
    8 - quality time
    6 - physical touch
    4 - words of affirmation
    4 - receiving gifts
     
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    10. Quality Time
    8. Physical Touch
    6. Words of Affirmation
    3. Acts of Service
    3. Receiving Gifts

    Hmm... I'm too tired to add a comment to this.
     
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    10 Quality Time
    7 Physical Touch
    5 Words of Affirmation
    4 Acts of Service
    4 Receiving Gifts

    I'd say it seems pretty accurate
     
  13. Rawrzilla

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    I don't trust these results tho. A lot of the times during the test I felt uncomfortable with how binary the whole thing was, mostly because in at least 10 occasions I didn't like neither of the options provided and felt forced to pick the one I was less uncomfortable with instead of an answer that I actually identified with.

    Plus, I'm a little more complicated than this test would make me out to be. For example, I have observed (and others too) that at the beginning of a relationship I tend to be very chatty and value spending long periods of time just with my partner, as well as verbally expressing my appreciation for them (I enjoy the same in return). However, and here is where we get into territory this test doesn't account for, the longer the relationship goes the more my "love" communication style... Evolves. I start to rely more and more on purely physical gestures and actions to express my appreciation, while in turn using less and less words. The same way, while I still value spending "alone time" with my partner, it becomes less and less essential for me to isolate ourselves from the world to feel connected to them.

    I appreciate the fact that the test tries to offer a (somewhat) wide spectrum of possible communication styles and represent the way we may blend them into our own form of expression. That said, because of the aforementioned binary format and not taking in consideration that the state of relationships doesn't remain static, I think it ultimately fails in giving a reliable, accurate answer.

    Kinda fun tho.
     
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    10 Physical Touch
    8 Quality Time
    8 Words of Affirmation
    4 Acts of Service
    0 Receiving Gifts

    I find this interesting. Even though I'm not a touchy feely person, it is the way I show affection. I don't let just anybody touch me, so if we're making physical contact, then you're special to me in some way.
     
  15. Rawrzilla

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    Also, nice try to get my email to send me spam. I'm not falling for that tho. Always remember to mask your emails fellas.
     
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    8 Quality Time
    8 Words of Affirmation
    7 Physical Touch
    6 Acts of Service
    1 Receiving Gifts

    Seems about right. While filling out the form it seemed like the questions were pushing gifts pretty hard though.
     
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    9 Quality Time
    6 Physical Touch
    6 Words of Affirmation
    5 Acts of Service
    4 Receiving Gifts

    This is more or less correct, to me.
     
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    9 Quality Time
    8 Words of Affirmation
    7 Acts of Service
    4 Receiving Gifts
    2 Physical Touch
     
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    9 Physical Touch
    8 Quality Time
    7 Words of Affirmation
    3 Acts of Service
    3 Receiving Gifts

    I was actually really afraid that receiving gifts would be #2 and I'd feel really shallow.

    Oh, and about the spam e-mail thing - this site didn't need it, but 10-minute mail is an amazing site for spam mail. It gives you an e-mail address which self-destructs after 10 minutes. If you need it a bit longer, you can hit 10 more minutes before the time runs out - so for instance, if you 3 minutes left, you can press "10 more" and it will go back to 10 minutes.
     
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    Gifts and words - ick. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: