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22nd Oct 2008, 05:33 AM
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| New to the group Regular Member   Gender: Male Orientation: Not sure (still trying to figure it out) Out Status: Not out at all Location: Ohio Posts: 34 Join Date: Oct 2008 |  3 questions First....Do any guys (or girls for that matter) think I am cute or attractive? Second....I want to be with a man so bad. I am attracted to larger guys (heavier) that won't hurt me. All I have done is kissed, oral, and cuddle but there are so much more out there...right? Where do I find them? and do you think any guy would be interested in me? Third....I am attracted to shemales/transgendered and also cd's....is that weird? |
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22nd Oct 2008, 09:56 AM
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| Official #1 fan of Celine Dion Full Member   Gender: Female Orientation: Pansexual/Homoromantic bisexual Out Status: Generally whoever asks Location: I travel a lot Age: 20 Posts: 5,704 Join Date: Jan 2008 | Re: 3 questions CDs?? Could that possibly make you OS?? (Objectum sexual - attracted to inanimate objects) Sorry...can't be of much help. But question 3 - whether a person is weird is not defined by who they're attracted to, so no.
__________________  Don't drink and drive. You might hit a bump and spill your drink.  Co-founder of the 'Sailor Moon Made Me Gay' club...and the lesbians. |
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22nd Oct 2008, 12:34 PM
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| EC 'Dad' EC Advisor   Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Toronto Age: 41 Posts: 7,445 Join Date: Mar 2007 | Re: 3 questions Quote:
 You're just so cute, Lucy! In answer to your questions: 1) Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It really shouldn't be about what you look like - it's who you are. 2) Depending on where you live, there are likely support groups for clubs for gays and lesbians. Here in Toronto there is a club called 'Out and Out' that organizes social gatherings. Meeting people as friends is always the best way to find a boyfriend. 3) I don't think there's anything weird about being attracted to anything in particular.
__________________ Jim "It is never too late to be what you might have been." | |
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22nd Oct 2008, 01:43 PM
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| The gay gargoyle EC Advisor  Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Colorado Age: 42 Posts: 12,371 Join Date: Dec 2007 | Re: 3 questions The answers to 1 and 3 are obvious - yes and no. It's #2 that's going to get you into trouble. If you "want to be with a man so bad", you're a prime target for guys who ARE going to hurt you. There's nothing wrong with wanting a guy, or actively looking for a guy. But resolve that you will NOT get involved with a loser just because "it beats being lonely". It doesn't. A crappy relationship is lots worse than being lonely. So do your best to remain critical of the guys that come your way. Don't go saying yes just because someone offers, and you think "I can't do any better". You can.  Lex |
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