Anyone else on here just want to scream they're gay when talking to family/friends when they constantly ask you about not having a girlfriend?! Yes, I know I should come out to them (and will in due time) but every time I get cornered I feel like yelling at the top of my lungs! Or sometimes I'll be laying in bed or driving (where I do my best thinking) and think how nice it would be to just write on Facebook "I'm Gay" or "Yell it from the rooftop" and deal with the consequences later. Then I think to myself what a terrible idea that is and get all depressed again. I can't be the only one that feels this way
Do you have a girlfriend andrew? Andrew: no ?: why? Andrew: DAMNIT IM GAY ride: Im guessing that was what you're asking?
I only tell females...When they ask me about a girlfriend, I say: "I'm not exactly into girls...I'm Gay..." If guys ask me, I play the straight game...Girls are less homophobic...Straight guys are fuckwads... I wish things weren't like that...That way, every time I meet someone, male or female, I can immediately say, "I'm Gay..."
I'm completely out so I kind of do that already.. well, whenever someone asks. I don't go around screaming it though.
I'm probably more pissed than depressed when this happens. I don't ask people personal questions unless I feel very comfortable around them, know them well enough, and this is a topic I sense they are almost wanting to broach. This question is mostly used to pry. It serves no other purpose. That's why it is irritating. Truth be told, I find that elderly people are the rudest when it comes to this question ... and, mostly, it's crotchety, elderly women. I agree that narrow minded straight guys are fucktards when it comes to this topic and if a straight guy is intrigued by someone's homosexuality, then he's probably bisexual.
Lol, I'm like that too. Whenever people ask me if I have a boyfriend, I'm so tempted to say "No, but my girlfriend is doing fine, thanks for asking." Even if I don't have one. Honestly, I hate living with this secret. It's like it's holding you back from you. I've told the step rental, but it didn't go all that well, but I still feel like screaming it out so I can just get it over with and deal with it and start living my life... I feel the same way as Disco n Metal. More girls here than guys are less homophobic.
Well... Not yell "I'm gay!" exactly, I think that would give them the wrong idea.... But there have been times where I just want them to see me. Treat me like a girl... Stop calling me "Boy" while we are at it! It was cute for a while, when I was a kid but I'm not.. I'm not a boy okay!?.... Something like that occasionally crosses my mind... But that's too cruel I think... I don't want to make them feel bad when they had no idea...
