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Important qualities of a partner

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by waitwhat, Jan 11, 2015.

  1. waitwhat

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    I do not care who I end up with, as long as they can use a can opener, open jars for me, and can put the ham on my sandwiches. As pathetic as it sounds I can do non of those things on my own. For some reason, I can't figure out how to work a friggin can opener. I have weak noodle arms so no pickles for me (sad face). Aaannndd, I cannot stand the feeling of ham.

    Are there any "important" qualities you would like your partner to have? Obviously, I'm looking for silly, ridiculous things like mine, or serious ones if you like.
     
  2. gazwkd

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    Trust, without it the relationship is a dead one sooner or later.
     
  3. Buttermilk

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    I need somebody who is able to remove spiders and insects in the house/apartment, and can carry heavy objects. I am absolutely and irrationally terrified by spiders, and I have no arm strength whatsoever (or any strength, for that matter). I can't even do a push up. :dry:
     
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    Huh, a number of things:

    -Somebody who I can confide in, who understands me, that I can trust, and vice-versa, and communicate with on a deep, emotional level

    -Somebody with a sense of fun, adventure and creativity

    -Somebody who loves to explore sex, and try new things.

    Well, my partner is almost all these, except I think I'm twice as horny, but you can't have everything! Maybe I'll get him some of them prescription penis pills. =p
     
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    Actually my brother just asked what I would want my partner to be like. Specifically he asked if I could be in a relationship with someone who doesn't go to university. And actually I think that is the most important quality for me, I really want my boyfriend to be highly-educated. I study in university myself and I think I'd have hardly anything in common with a guy who quit studying after he turned 18. Our lives would just be completely different.

    One important thing is that he wouldn't smoke. I dated a guy for a couple of weeks, until came out that he smoked. Really, I know nothing as disgusting as smoking.

    Haha yeah those are actually quite important, but if I had to say an "important" quality.. Hmm.. Well if he knew how to drive a car, that'd be great. I have a lisence, but I'm the worst driver in the world so a personal driver would be great!
     
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    -Someone supportive of me, who I can be support for.
    -Having a backbone is a plus
    -Smart (I don't mean noble-laureate, but someone who's not an idiot.)
    -Generally responsible and fiscally responsible
    -Kind
    -Gets my humor
     
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    - smart
    - kind
    - can deal with my emotions
    - finds me attractive

    let's see how many years it takes me to find mr. right :slight_smile:
     
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    One a serious note, someone who challenges me to be a better person. I want to change and evolve hopefully for the better.

    On the silly side, someone who can will eat the mushrooms I abandon on my plate.
     
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    Trust
    Good sense of humour
    Adventurous
     
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    Trustful-Dont go slipping off with someone else while dating me... Ill become a real cold hearted bitch... oh and ill make sure to get payback

    Lustful- Lets face it i like sex and i wanna have a guy that likes it as well
     
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    Someone who knows how to love and be loved. Who can accept me for who I am. Who will encourage and help me to grow as a person as I do the same for them. And someone who enjoys the special intimate times. :slight_smile:

    ---------- Post added 11th Jan 2015 at 07:48 PM ----------

    Oh forgot to mention, maybe someone about my size. Really save on clothes that way! Lol
     
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    Fun but 'important':
    Someone who will leave me alone and appreciates pillow forts and conversation more than sex

    Seriously:
    Someone who understands their own emotional responses, stablity (financially, emotionally), intelligent
     
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    - Someone I can trust, and proves it regularly.
    - Someone who can stand my awful singing to punk rock :slight_smile:
    - Someone who likes to cuddle.
    - Can deal with my mood swings and not get whiplash
    - Gets my sense of humor.

    ~Liam x
     
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    Someone who can I can trust 100%

    Someone who knows me. Like they can say what I like and don't like,etc.

    Someone who wants more than sex.

    someone with good sense of humor.

    those are some of the MAJOR qualities I look for.
     
  16. NingyoBroken

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    I need someone who's physically attractive to me
    And someone who is okay with a little pain when sexy time comes ^_-

    Also....

    someone who wants to be held and cuddled
    Someone who enjoys being given massages and rose-scented bubble baths.
    Someone who will let me brush their hair and do their makeup once in a while
    Someone who can share clothing and accessories with me

    *sighs* (*^^*)
     
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    Trust and Loyalty
    Not afraid of affection
    Funny
    Smart and Inquisitive - not just degreed
    Self-supportive
     
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    İ can't imagine myself with someone who has a strong character.
    He should be submissive

    But it is boring when someone always agrees with you and when he is doing what you want.
     
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    The most silly one I want is a skilled gamer; I'm still a casual gamer and want someone to share tips with haha
     
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    Someone who is capable of deep intellectual, philosophical conversation. Someone who can penetrate deep into my thoughts and understand things on a profound level. Someone who will never judge me just for being; someone who will challenge me to be the better version of myself. Someone who makes me want to care for them, and go out of my way for them.

    Such a person would be beautiful.