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crossfire0159 · 25th Oct 2008, 05:36 PM

So I'm just curious.
If you had a really good date, how far would you go with that person?
Holding hands?
Kissing?
More...?

I'm just curious. Lol

kh23172 · 25th Oct 2008, 05:54 PM

I don't kiss on the first date. It's really a moral thing.

I'm fine with some pda like holding hands, but no kissing. Definately nothing further than that either.

25th Oct 2008, 05:58 PM

a first date hand holding and hugs.. possibly a kiss on the check but nothing more.. same for second and third... maybe by the fourth i would kiss on the mouth but not for super long.. then at the fifth if we were not casually dating but were like bfs then longer kisses leading up to making out .. and up and beyond

Absentminded · 25th Oct 2008, 06:03 PM

well...my past first date experiences have been interesting...so...I don't know how far I'd go.

littledinosaurs · 25th Oct 2008, 06:05 PM

idk
it depends on how well i know them?
I think i'd kiss them (i have before haha)
maybe farther iguess dependingon how well it was?
not sure i guess i'll let you knowsome day

25th Oct 2008, 06:13 PM

I've never been on a successful date. So I'm not really sure. But I don't think anything more than kisssing.

Starshine16 · 25th Oct 2008, 06:24 PM

First date I would go no farther than kissing the other person.

Apocalypte · 25th Oct 2008, 06:27 PM

Depends on the person - anything between a little kiss and all the way.

Jeimuzu · 25th Oct 2008, 06:57 PM

Holding hands. A good date shouldn't be ruined by anything more.

25th Oct 2008, 06:59 PM

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Originally Posted by Jeimuzu

Holding hands. A good date shouldn't be ruined by anything more.

aww thats sweet!

25th Oct 2008, 07:27 PM

Depends on the person. I generally follow these rules:

If it was a good first date in a series of potential dates, then a kiss.
If it was a good date with someone who I don't really want to continue dating, then more.

I tend to give into temptation way more than is morally acceptable. :P

25th Oct 2008, 07:59 PM

all the way probably

Wander · 25th Oct 2008, 08:22 PM

No more than kissing until I have formed a sincere bond with the other person and I trust that they feel the same about me.

MonsieurGodiva · 25th Oct 2008, 08:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Wander

No more than kissing until I have formed a sincere bond with the other person and I trust that they feel the same about me.

Same here.

25th Oct 2008, 08:28 PM

depends on the how the date went but probably just a kiss.

musican · 25th Oct 2008, 09:05 PM

I've never actually been on a date before so I dont even know how I would act, or what I would do during the date; I dont even know how I would get a date.

It would all depend on if we're both out, probably holding hands or a kiss on the cheek is as far as I would go.

Mikeyy · 25th Oct 2008, 09:55 PM

Well, to be perfectly honest, if they were up for it, I'd go all the way on the first date.

25th Oct 2008, 10:12 PM

depends on the mood, and drinks involved lol.
i would probably make out.

mattypants · 25th Oct 2008, 10:37 PM

for me, it all depends.

CazzieCRUSH · 25th Oct 2008, 10:43 PM

I've never been on a "date"

I just date the people and so when we go out, it's not like were new to eachother or anything...

Hmmmm.
I wouldn't make out with them, maybe a little kiss...?
A peck...?

No further. Not too interested in screwing around.

25th Oct 2008, 05:36 PM	#1
crossfire0159 Member Regular Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Close Friends! Location: MI Age: 21 Posts: 51 Join Date: May 2008	How far would you go? So I'm just curious. If you had a really good date, how far would you go with that person? Holding hands? Kissing? More...? I'm just curious. Lol __________________ All the world's a stage, and all the men and women merely players: they have their exits and their entrances; and one man in his time plays many parts, his acts being seven ages. -William Shakespeare

25th Oct 2008, 05:54 PM	#2
kh23172 Everything happens for a reason. Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando, Florida Age: 21 Posts: 210 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: How far would you go? I don't kiss on the first date. It's really a moral thing. I'm fine with some pda like holding hands, but no kissing. Definately nothing further than that either. __________________ If gay is also defined as happy, then I'm gay I'm gay. For all those non-gays out there, your life must suck. Me Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain. Me

25th Oct 2008, 05:58 PM	#3
Master Hade Guest Posts: n/a	Re: How far would you go? a first date hand holding and hugs.. possibly a kiss on the check but nothing more.. same for second and third... maybe by the fourth i would kiss on the mouth but not for super long.. then at the fifth if we were not casually dating but were like bfs then longer kisses leading up to making out .. and up and beyond

25th Oct 2008, 06:03 PM	#4
Absentminded EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: I'm a ladies kind of guy ;) Out Status: I flirt in public. Take a guess ;) Location: Vermont Age: 19 Posts: 546 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: How far would you go? well...my past first date experiences have been interesting...so...I don't know how far I'd go.

25th Oct 2008, 06:05 PM	#5
littledinosaurs J'essaie de Parler Français! :] Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: Bisexuel Location: Nouvelle-Angleterre. Age: 21 Posts: 2,351 Join Date: Sep 2008	Re: How far would you go? idk it depends on how well i know them? I think i'd kiss them (i have before haha) maybe farther iguess dependingon how well it was? not sure i guess i'll let you knowsome day __________________ Âllo Là

25th Oct 2008, 06:13 PM	#6
ColbieMarie Guest Posts: n/a	Re: How far would you go? I've never been on a successful date. So I'm not really sure. But I don't think anything more than kisssing.

25th Oct 2008, 06:24 PM	#7
Starshine16 One Day At A Time Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: All but grandmother and uncle Location: California Age: 26 Posts: 563 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: How far would you go? First date I would go no farther than kissing the other person.

25th Oct 2008, 06:27 PM	#8
Apocalypte Ytse Jamming. Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Dublin, Ireland Age: 27 Posts: 2,217 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: How far would you go? Depends on the person - anything between a little kiss and all the way. __________________ "I like my beer cold...my TV loud...and my homosexuals flaming." - Homer Simpson

25th Oct 2008, 06:57 PM	#9
Jeimuzu Wreck Cognition Full Member Gender: Heterogametic Orientation: Rawr. Out Status: 99% out. Location: Middlesbrough Age: 23 Posts: 1,744 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: How far would you go? Holding hands. A good date shouldn't be ruined by anything more. __________________

25th Oct 2008, 07:27 PM	#11
Numfarh Guest Posts: n/a	Re: How far would you go? Depends on the person. I generally follow these rules: If it was a good first date in a series of potential dates, then a kiss. If it was a good date with someone who I don't really want to continue dating, then more. I tend to give into temptation way more than is morally acceptable. :P

25th Oct 2008, 07:59 PM	#12
krazykyle Guest Posts: n/a	Re: How far would you go? all the way probably

25th Oct 2008, 08:22 PM	#13
Wander Banned Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Parents, aunts, grandma, counselor, online friends Location: Central Alabama Age: 18 Posts: 2,360 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: How far would you go? No more than kissing until I have formed a sincere bond with the other person and I trust that they feel the same about me.

25th Oct 2008, 08:28 PM	#15
Myke Guest Posts: n/a	Re: How far would you go? depends on the how the date went but probably just a kiss.

25th Oct 2008, 09:05 PM	#16
musican EC's Resident DJ Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: "I wanna kiss a boy" Out Status: family and facebook Location: (Not the city), New York Age: 20 Posts: 3,832 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: How far would you go? I've never actually been on a date before so I dont even know how I would act, or what I would do during the date; I dont even know how I would get a date. It would all depend on if we're both out, probably holding hands or a kiss on the cheek is as far as I would go. __________________ How I miss our love when the winter surrounds me icicle teardrops.

25th Oct 2008, 09:55 PM	#17
Mikeyy Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Melbourne, Australia Age: 19 Posts: 176 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: How far would you go? Well, to be perfectly honest, if they were up for it, I'd go all the way on the first date.

25th Oct 2008, 10:12 PM	#18
ppreston9 Guest Posts: n/a	Re: How far would you go? depends on the mood, and drinks involved lol. i would probably make out.

25th Oct 2008, 10:37 PM	#19
mattypants Chacun à son goût Full Member Gender: male/garçon/hombre Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some friends Some family and the lesbians Location: Los angeles, Ca Posts: 2,733 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: How far would you go? for me, it all depends.

25th Oct 2008, 10:43 PM	#20
CazzieCRUSH CazzieCatastrophe Regular Member Gender: Female Orientation: Not Quite All Girl, But Not Quite Both. Out Status: All but family Location: Brisbane Posts: 26 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: How far would you go? I've never been on a "date" I just date the people and so when we go out, it's not like were new to eachother or anything... Hmmmm. I wouldn't make out with them, maybe a little kiss...? A peck...? No further. Not too interested in screwing around.