Feminine guys who refuse dating feminine guys?

I don't really have enough insight to provide a conclusive answer but I will try! Maybe feminine guys want to date more masculine guys? Could it be possible that they want a partner that is protective and more 'macho'? I for one want a stronger and taller boyfriend to hold me tight and never let go :3

 

If I'm being perfectly honest I'd go out with a femme guy any-day :lol: But I guess two divas living under the same roof would be hard to adapt to :lol:

 

My input as an outsider: Just because someone is femme (or very masculine, or neither) doesn't mean they have to be attracted to their own "type."
As we know, two guys are two guys and don't need gender roles thrust upon them, but I've known a couple guys who much prefer to feel like the submissive, more feminine one in a relationship.

 

I'd prefer not overly macho or overly feminine. Both extremes kind of annoy me.

 

I guess it follows the saying "Opposites attract"

Which goes to show that I dislike masculine AND feminine, but instead I like more balanced guys, like myself. Cause remember, the opposite of the middle, is the middle.

 

Masculine, feminine, androgynous... If I like you, I'll like you regardless of what you are.

 

I'm not like that, I am only attracted to feminine guys, especially in looks, and masculine guys are not even the slightest attractive to me.

Though I personally do not consider myself feminine, I do crossdress and wear makeup which is a feminine thing, and my normal look could be also considered feminine by western standards.

 

I love both equally, but what I love about a feminine is how sensitive and vulnerable they appear. Somehow, in my mind, that makes them adorable and sweet and I get the feeling I want to hold them and never let go.
Whereas a masculine guy, I love to tumble and wrestle and I'm very competitive. Plus I love the hair and bravado. They tend to be bolder and more adventurous.
It shouldn't matter because if it does we go into stereotypes that will often be proven untrue.

 

While it is true that feminine men are completely justified in being attracted and unattracted whoever they please, it is also true that feminine men are not immune to internalized homophobia/misogyny or social influence. It is for the same reason that we see instances of women claiming that they don't want female friends because men are much less dramatic and catty. The same reason that the average women finds overt femininity in men just as unsightly as the average masculine man.

 

Just wondering, us girls use the term Femme for lesbians who only date masculine females/Butches, and Lipstick lesbian for girly girls who date other girly girls and not Butches. Don't you guys have a different label for Fem guys that date Fem guys only? I know that gay guys use the term Fem also.

 

I think masculinity and femininity get along very well lol! I wouldn't feel complete if I was with someone like me

Just like some masculine men don't like the company of other masculine guys

---------- Post added 20th Jan 2015 at 06:28 PM ----------

Effeminate? :lol:

 

:eusa_clap

 

I cannot stress how much I agree. This is like exactly what I would have posted.

 

In a purely aesthetic sense, I find most femme guys unattractive. Might be because of their overall fashion sense or the makeup (I don't think it's wrong, I just prefer less lip gloss and foundation). I find a rougher, more masculine and natural appearance more pleasing.
In practice though, I don't care. I value the exterior, but it's the mind that I'm most attracted to.

 

You can't force a group of people to have romantic or sexual interests in another group. And you can't blame them for their tastes...

 

I don't mind. Masculine or feminine. As long as I love them.