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| View Poll Results: Is the breakup the end? | |||
| yes, a breakup is always the end for me. | | 13 | 27.66% |
| No, i'm open to getting back together sometimes. | | 34 | 72.34% |
| Voters: 47. You may not vote on this poll | |||
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| J'essaie de Parler Français! :] Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: Bisexuel Location: Nouvelle-Angleterre. Age: 21 Posts: 2,351 Join Date: Sep 2008 | So i know some people go back and forth between being brokenup and together and i wanted to see what people thought of that? I think with myself if there was a breakup it'd be the end. What about the rest of you?
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| Well Known Regular Member ![]() Gender: XY Orientation: i like d00dz Out Status: Out to everyone Location: az Posts: 163 Join Date: Dec 2007 | I agree with you. I used to be really wishy-washy about relationships with people, but lately I sit myself down and decide what I really want, and go from there. If you break up with someone, it's for a reason.
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| Guest Posts: n/a | I have been known to get back with my ex's. A few times....lol. (You know who you are! LMAO) But i always try to make a habit of staying friends with my ex's, it just takes the tension out of it in the end, it makes it easier when it comes to having the same friendship group and stuff. |
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| Lover of Loony Lovegood Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Lesimbean Out Status: I scream it from rooftops Location: Ontario, Canada. Age: 19 Posts: 3,391 Join Date: Feb 2008 | For me it really depends on the situation and resons behind the breakup. But i chose it's the end, because thats how it has been for me so far. I dunno about the future though. I'm easily able to fall for someone again. >.< I'm always friends with my exes, though. It makes life easier and less stressful. I usually dont break up on bad terms, cause i hardly ever get mad. ![]()
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| Guest Posts: n/a | I've never had an ex but I've been known to have sex with someone more than once after I've tried hiding from them lol. |
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| ^_^ Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Illinois, just outside of Chicago Age: 19 Posts: 1,898 Join Date: Aug 2007 | Depends on who breaks it up and why, most times I'd say I'd be willing to get back together with an ex
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| Guest Posts: n/a | I' d get back with an ex, depending on why we broke up. if it was on good terms and something just wasnt working in the relationship at the time, later on (shrug). friends with possibilities ![]() |
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| Guest Posts: n/a | I didn't vote, because it would depend on the person/reason we broke up. I did take my ex back, but no way would it happen again. |
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| يَناير Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: France Age: 22 Posts: 849 Join Date: Aug 2008 | Well it depends on the situation, I'm still friends with my ex's and I still see one semi-regularly, he still loves me but I don't think it's a good idea for us to get back together as a couple again.
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| Diapered and collared! Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: I have "The Gay." :) Out Status: Loud and proud! Location: Detroit area, Michigan Age: 30 Posts: 1,746 Join Date: Mar 2007 | I'll be honest. I have an issue with holding grudges, which means that if I broke up with someone, there was a reason, and that's it. Conversely, if they broke up with me, then there was some reason. Either way, once a trust with someone is broken, I find it nearly impossible to reestablish any kind of a trust with that person again. Basically, you fuck it up once, well, you missed your chance with me.
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| I Can't Help You Fix Yourself Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Garcons et filles Out Status: Seriously, Everyone knows Location: O-H-I-O! Age: 18 Posts: 2,066 Join Date: Feb 2008 | For me it depends on the person and why we broke up in the first place. One guy I dated for awhile, we broke up, because of distance and lack of communication. We dated again, but broke up for the same reason. The other guy I dated, we broke up because he stalked me. We're friends, and he's taken me to pick up food at Subway and we've wrestled on the floor (best story ever) and he's even suggested that we get back together, but, we're better off as friends if you ask me.
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| Empty Closets Mod EC Moderator ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Bisexual Out Status: Inconsequential if people know. Location: York, United Kingdom Age: 19 Posts: 2,101 Join Date: Mar 2008 | Well from my (limited) experience, breaking up is the end of it, and I wouldn't get back together again. My last relationship was a crappy little Internet one that took place over a year ago, and the fellow involved broke up with me because he didn't want to have to wait for me to be old enough (he's 2 years older than me) and despite the fact that he loved me, and insisted he "could handle it", he couldn't handle the distance. Didn't mean he had to string me on for the next year after that ![]() I'd neeeeever take him back.
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| EC Addict Full Member Gender: Female Orientation: Lesbian Out Status: Everyone but extended family Age: 21 Posts: 281 Join Date: Aug 2008 | in the past i have gotten bk together with someone ppl say u split up for a reason it depends on the circumstances i guess |
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