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love vs. admiration

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Jaymmm, Feb 3, 2015.

  1. Jaymmm

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    If u should define the difference between love and only admiration how it would be?

    (i dont have a practical clue)
     
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    Love is pretty much just mutual admiration, a 2-way street where give and recieve are equal.

    Admiration is pretty much a crush, unless it's professional.
     
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    Not necessarily. What about unrequited love? That's not mutual and can be painful. I admire many people for a variety of reasons but I'm not attracted to them. About 20 yrs. ago I had a relationship with a guy for about a year (maybe less). I couldn't get enough of him. I had it so bad I scared him off. We're still friends and the old feelings surface every time I see him. That may be more of an example of love vs. attraction rather than love vs. admiration.
     
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    Last spring, there was this woman whom I thought I admired. She was a teacher at my school, but not my teacher. I got to know her as a person, rather than a teacher. She was so nice to me, and cared for me, during an awful 10 days' long school trip. We spent a lot of time together during those days.

    Looking back now though, I realize that my feelings were more than that. As I saw her walking away with her husband (when the trip was over), my whole body ached. It wasn't feelings as strong as love that I felt, but it surely wasn't just an admiration. If it was nothing more than an admiration, I doubt seeing her with her husband would have hurt as much as it did.

    Worth noting is that there were no feelings on her part in this. I didn't even know there were any on mine, at that time.
     
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    i was jealous because people i admired have life partners... maybe just jealousy of wanting to spend more time with them and be their friends
     
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    Admiration:
    "Wow, they're so ___! I want to be around them!"

    Love:
    "Wow, they're so ___! I want to be with them!"

    Of course, it's a little more complex than this, but that should give you a good foundation, to compare and contrast. Sometimes, admiration can overlap into love, but usually, while some sentiments are the same, the desired result can differ.