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Can Lesbians Sometimes Think Guys Are Cute?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by BookWriter1994, Feb 4, 2015.

  1. BookWriter1994

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    Okay, I k ow for a fact that I am indeed a lesbian. But today when I was applying for jobs I saw a guy. Okay, I gotta admit he was kind of cute but I can't see myself dating him tho. Can lesbians sometimes find certain guys cute? Maybe it's because I am a new lesbian or something but I know that my attraction for guys are definitely going away
     
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    Yes, lesbians can think some guys are cute.
     
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    I think some girls are pretty. Doesn't mean I find them sexually appealing.
     
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    Same here. Acknowledging attractiveness in people of the opposite gender doesn't make me any less gay.
     
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    Being a lesbian does not equal being blind to the beauty of everything that isn't a woman.

    I think puppies are cute, but that doesn't mean I'm attracted to them.
     
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    I went to Ireland this summer and there was this guy in my family who had the bluest eyes ever and was just ridiculously handsome. I thought he was really really cute and could see why every girl was attracted to him, but wouldn't have wanted him to even come close to me THAT way! So yeah: totally normal.
     
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    Oh wow thanks guys for your replies!
     
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    In a platonic way yes
     
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    Yeah, sure. Anyone can recognise attractiveness in others, regardless of gender or sexuality.
     
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    Definitely. As an asexual, just because I acknowledge beauty in someone does NOT imply a desire for romance or sex. Seriously. It's just the stupid media that encourages such thinking. So, just like everyone else said above, you are pretty normal.
     
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    id say yea for sure i find sum guys cute but id never ever be with them..i know for a fact i only want to be with a woman..everything about them drives me crazy..and guys just dont do that for me at all..girls its like fireworks guys its meeehhh...definitly definitly les..haha
     
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    This a 1000x over! Women are my weakness :wink:
     
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    Absolutely. I still say that to some people: Women are pretty and beautiful, just not attractive.
     
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    As others have noted, yeah.

    Finding someone attractive and being 'attracted to them' aren't necessarily the same thing. I see girls all the time who I feel are really pretty(aka attractive), so I can why guys would be all over them; what's different about that is that they don't have that 'pull' on me that seeing an attractive guy would have.
     
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    Yep. I have a lesbian who told me I'm cute.

    At first, I kinda didn't get it and thought she might be bi, but no, there's a difference between recognizing someone's good or appealing looks and being sexually attracted to them. I hear straight girls tell other girls they look cute. The least common would be straight guys saying it about other guys, but anything's possible. It wouldn't mean they're gay or bi either.
     
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    On that, straight guys can recognize when another guy is attractive, but there's a combination of things preventing them from saying anything - the fear of being thought of as gay, the fear of being beat up by said guy, the fear of acknowledging them as competition for girls. I think there's something in the social rules for guys to the effect of the first two.
     
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    Same here, too...I acknowledge the fact that some of my female co-workers are pretty, but that doesn't mean I want to bed them...
     
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    For me im not interested in girls so meh. Lately I find guys who are into girls hot tho for some reason
     
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    I'm not sure why they wouldn't be able to. People seem to think appreciating someone's appearance is the same thing as being into them.
     
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    As many gay guys say, they will know/think that a lady is beautiful or even sexy, but that doesn't mean that they want to bump uglies- just that they see her beauty.

    It is the same with lesbians and men. You can tell someone is handsome or cute without wanting to jump their bones.

    ine everything, *hugs*