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Would you date a stripper/go-go dancer?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Burnedcloset, Feb 4, 2015.

  1. Burnedcloset

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    I hope this is appropriate LOL.

    I was listening to I Dont Mind - usher. And I actually thought about it.
    So.....would you date a stripper? Does their job matter at all?


    Ok, so my answer:

    Obviously....if they are a stripper/Go-go dancer they are gonna be attractive. So I would be tempted. I think I might be a little jealous of them shaking their stuff at people all the time though. It kind of depends on how the person handles it. Those $1 dollar bills could help sometimes to.

    Enough of my answer. I want yours!
     
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    Probably not. I don't think we'd have much in common and it would probably be too hard to get to that point. And they probably keep very different company than I do.
     
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    Id date a hooker if we had a connection..
     
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    I see no problem dating one they have to earn a living can not fault them for that
     
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    I doubt it. I'm a jealous person and wouldn't be happy dating someone who is showing their body to everyone else.
     
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    Hell yeah! Sexy~
     
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    I wouldn't mind it. I just see it as another job which just happens to require less clothing and as long as they are confident and they feel safe doing it then it's allgoods.

    I might get a bit jelly if people get too touchy-feely but at the end of the day, I trust my partner.
     
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    Maybe.

    But there's the unfortunate likelihood that, if one strips, especially for quite some time, they will more likely succumb to that lifestyle. I cannot speak for every single strip club, but enough of them operate like a legal pimping structure. I'd be more concerned about that, than anything else really, well, aside from safety. Alcohol and sexual performances don't often mix too well together.

    By itself, no, it isn't too much of a problem. I'd cross that bridge when it was gotten to. If somebody I was starting to see did this, it'd come up early enough in the relationship. If it happens afterwards, sometime down the road, I'd be a little surprised it wasn't mentioned to me. Naturally, I'd be curious as to why, but I'd hear my partner out at least.
     
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    Hell, yes! ^^
     
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    No, no, no.

    I'll get too jealous of other people ogling them all the time.

    True, they are bound to be really attractive, but that's not enough reason for me to date them. Call me judgemental but that's how I feel about it
     
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    I would, I don't think it really would matter, its not like they're having sex with someone, and they're probably enjoying their job so I wouldn't mind. I also wouldn't mind dating an x-porn star or something - dont know about if they were still in the porn industry but I would date someone who used to be. Anways I went off topic..

    Yeah I would, especially if I endorse stripclubs, it would be slightly hypocritical to me to endorse it but refuse to date them just because of a job that I endorse. Idk, its not for everyone I know, but for me I wouldn't give a frick frack.
     
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    I wouldn't have issue dating someone with a history in that line of work. If they were presently within it and didn't have any expectation to find a solid career, than I don't believe we would be moving in directions that would compliment one another.

    Though I could think of a number of occupations in which that same sentiment would be applicable, so it has nothing to do with the nature of the work.
     
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    yes. It's a profession and if that's what makes them happy, then so be it.
     
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    Probably. If they enjoy doing it, then good for them. I think I'd actually enjoy it a little to see other people ogling my man, when I know that, at the end of the day, he is mine.
     
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    Nope. My trust issues would skyrocket and I'd be a neurotic mess.
     
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    Yes. I love their dancing so it would be a bonus for me.

    Wish I could have one as a friend so he could teach me how to dance when I was younger.

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    This looks like fun for me no matter what other people think.
     
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    I can't wait for someone to say they are a stripper or Gogo-dancer. LoL

    I'd like to add that if I did date a stripper, I would like them to do some dancing for me. Free Lap dances for days!
     
  19. NingyoBroken

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    ^fuck yes. I'd want him to strip for me

    Funny thing is, I used to know a sexy male pole dancer who danced at a Tokyo goth club. Wish we could have.. Gotten acquainted. Haha.
     
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    Wouldn't mind at all dating a stripper. It's a legitimate job and I don't see it as shameful. And if I'm going to be with someone, I'd trust him or her not to be unfaithful. As long as the stripping is just business, I'd be fine.