Ok i live out of state and have not seen my parents in a 1 1/2 years and my mom sends a care package with fatty foods she baked and other treats. Me and my boyfriend are prone to getting fat if we don't eat healthy and now my mom sends a package. Us being low income I would rather have money than fatty food any day. How can I can nicely tell my mom not to send fatty food without her being offended. I am seriously gonna throw most of the food away. She also complains about my dad's weight and yet again she bakes fatty foods.
Yeah I should tell her the truth but knowing my parents they will raise a stink about it and will bring up past issues to counter act my concerns.