For you aggressive types, I would like to ask you some questions. HOW aggressive are you? Do you limit yourself to so many "passes" to the other person? Do you harass them until they submit? Do you stalk them until they call the cops? Do you get more verbally abusive or physically abusive towards them the more they say "no"? WHEN do you take "no" for the answer?
Um, aggressive in my book only means 'making the first move'. If someone is stalking harrassing and otherwise intimidating the other person, it is not aggression but is abuse in my book. No means no.
