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Can I stop my passive-agressive behavior?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by edy, Feb 8, 2015.

  1. edy

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    :dry: I just realized I had this in me.

    You guys don't really know me, so you can't tell what's going on but let me put it this way:

    I have a difficult time trying to express my true feelings.
     
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    for instance, when I'm attracted to a guy I feel so ashamed of it and I act distant, passive-aggressive

    It hasn't happened recently but if one of the guys I like confronts me and ask me if I like him, or tries to judge me I would go like..."oh yeah, it's SO easy for you, isn't it?"
     
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    Well maybe you just don't like it when people pick on you. Do you think you've fully accepted you're gay?
     
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    The thing is, I don't really want to be a helpless victim. I like getting even BUT I don't like being so mean either
     
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    So, I've been reading about this and it seems like the only way to stop is to be completely honest

    ---------- Post added 8th Feb 2015 at 10:13 PM ----------

    Now, how do I do it?