Hi EC. I've been separated from my ex for about 6 months now. It's been hard. I realize I had way more feelings than I thought for her, but I understand that I have to move past this in order to grow. I'm glad I moved away to a new city. Valentines day is coming up and I'm not sure what to do. I don't care much for the holiday, but I also don't want to sit at home bored or see a bunch of couples around reminding me of my ex. Obviously in past years I had someone to focus on, but now I just want to get out there and find something fun to do. Would going to a bar be out of line? I've never been to a bar alone. I just moved to a new city and I don't know any bars around here. I also have no friends here, gay or straight, to show me the city in that way. Any suggestions on what to do as a single gay guy on Valentines day?
well whether single gay guy or girl many of us are in the same boat..im gonna try to avoid the bar just cuz i have a problem with booze..i guess i realized too that im not gonna find the type of girl i desire at a bar anyway..ofcourse the same doesnt have to ring true for u..bars are fun as hell im not gonna lie and i go alone allllll the time..i have like no friends really lol..idk i think honestly i might just get out to a new city for the weekend and go check out the town..i like to skate so i might check out their parks or maybe go for a hike or idk..local sober events or festivals lol then go for a smoothie or lunch/dinner or sumthing fuk it..valentines day is just another day..im still single that dont change lol..good luck..keep us posted on what ur gonna choose to do *hug*
