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Is it weird 2 have a crush but still look 4 other possibilities?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by luckrunningout7, Feb 13, 2015.

  1. luckrunningout7

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    There is this guy I like and have a crush on, yet I keep looking for other possibilities of relationships. Is that bad?
     
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    Not at all. Just because you like someone as a crush doesn't make you committed to them. Do what you want to do :slight_smile:
     
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    No shame, the more the merrier! But seriously if you get stuck on someone you might not see the best one walk by!
     
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    I think it's cool not to limit yourself. I mean, I don't actively "look for possibilities" whether or not I have a crush, but it's good to be open to whatever comes your way. Then you can enjoy your crush healthily without being too obsessed. Definitely nothing wrong about that.
     
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    If your not going out its fine
     
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    I dont think it is weird, it is normal (i guess). But when you are dating him, i think that is a different story.
     
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    No, you can look and think whatever you want.
    You can also do whatever you want.
     
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    I agree with all the replies.Its not healthy to just concentrate on your crush.Ive had crushes recently and unlike the past,im keeping my mind occupied with other things and other people.This way it wont get too out of hand.
     
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    No it's not. In fact that's healthier for you.
     
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    Thanks everyone!
     
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    Not at all, and it's probably better for you.
     
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    Yes, I've a crush (it sounds so high school) and have had it for some time. The person due to a number of reasons is unavailable. He is not currently in a relationship. He's other obligations. So I do see and date other people. Why should I pine for something that may never happen. If something changes I'll be the first in line, but then I may have already found the love of my life.
     
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    It's not weird. :slight_smile:
     
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    That actually sounds healthy, you know instead of obsessing over someone you can't have.