I may have this in the wrong spot but I am curious to as how difficult it has been to find someone to have a relationship with. I'm slowly starting to figure out who I am and finding someone locally that is ok with this and still cares for me seems like an impossible feat.
I find it quite hard to get into a relationship but one of the reasons it's so hard for me to find a relationship is the way i go about it. Tbh I don't just go out with anyone I only go out with someone I can actually see a future with just because it saves a lot of time and heartbreak in the end
Well... I didn't go looking for one, so I can't say it was "hard." I was really not wanting a relationship when I started having feelings for the girl I'm now seeing. We'd become friends pretty quickly and I had a huge crush on her. I don't like the concept of "looking for" a relationship (even though I know it's the best way, sometimes). As for figuring out who you are... Give yourself a little credit. There are definitely people out there who'll love you for who you are.
I would like to eventually find me a nice woman but I know I'll probably have to sort through the ones that aren't open minded -.-
