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| Guest Posts: n/a | I don't know if your school does/did this, we had an election where people voted for "Most Athletic, Most Likely to Succeed, Best Looking, Best Smile" etc. Do you think these elections are fair for kids? I'm just curious to see if you think they're hurtful to kids or not. Because I sort of do. All of that stuff is just based on who's popular, they don't look at the poor loners at all ever. I think it's too biased. It only makes the other kids feeling more depressed about themselves. I don't know maybe I'm crazy and just over thinking this, any opinions? |
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| EC's Sailor Uranus Full Member ![]() Gender: Biologically Female Orientation: Heterosexually Challenged Out Status: Most people Location: Bath, England Age: 21 Posts: 5,853 Join Date: Sep 2007 | It's just a popularity contest. It doesn't matter if they actually DO have the best smile or not, the kid with the most friends is going to win them. I remember in Primary (elementary) school where everyone in our year got a prize specifically for themselves. Looking back, it was just a certificate and a mention, but I felt so proud walking up to get my certificate for being "The Pupil most likely to compliment people" ![]()
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| Banned ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Parents, aunts, grandma, counselor, online friends Location: Central Alabama Age: 18 Posts: 2,360 Join Date: Jan 2008 | It only hurts the people who take it seriously. High School elections are a complete joke, and I never bother reading them anyway. I remember Billo had a shout-fest when a lesbian couple got elected Cutest Couple in a High School halfway across the country from him, but that's about it. |
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| Guest Posts: n/a | My friends and I rigged the ballots. Half of the awards went to my friends. I got "Most likely to become president". It's simply a popularity contest, even with our rigging (we turned in maybe 200 ballots for about 12 of us) my friend Sean (whose idea it was) still didn't get most fashionable because Mr. Popular got it. If you can find out a way to rig it I definitely suggest you do so. I was always such a good kid, quiet and unnoticed. It was an exhilarating rush to be announced Most Likely to be President and walk across the cafeteria filled with my senior class of which over half of them didn't know who I was. |
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| Psycho Glitter B*tch Full Member ![]() Gender: Guy, Unless Life Was a Horrible April Fools Joke. Orientation: Gay/Asexual/Confusing to Explain Out Status: Armed and Fabulous! XD Location: California Age: 23 Posts: 7,381 Join Date: Mar 2008 | Quote:
For instance, I was almost voted most time spent out of class, but lost it by a very small margin because no one knew me, go figure :P In Middle school I was voted most likely to become a lawyer, I tied with my longtime rival/friend because we argued so much, and I wasn't popular :P
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| J'essaie de Parler Français! :] Full Member Gender: Garçon Orientation: Bisexuel Location: Nouvelle-Angleterre. Age: 21 Posts: 2,351 Join Date: Sep 2008 | I don't really see any harm in them. A. They are usually rigged anyways (like at my school last year) B. Nobody takes them seriously and people usually Campagin for certian awards. C. If you care soo much about them that not winning one seriously upsets you then you might wanna figure out why it was so important to win that award in the first place.
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| Coop d'état Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Berlin, Germany Age: 21 Posts: 1,607 Join Date: Nov 2007 | It's all just fun. I got to the round of 16 in my school of 2700 for being 1 of the 4 "Smartest". |
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| Shrug Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: tulsa, oklahoma Age: 19 Posts: 96 Join Date: Aug 2008 | i agree, it all just in gud fun!!! at my school someone haz 2 nominate u and get lyk 20 signatures or sumthing!!! last year i waz nominated 4 most likely to become famous and best dancer!!! i won best dancer!!!haha!!! |
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| Guest Posts: n/a | I was voted "Most Likely to Win a Nobel Prize"! (People thought I was smart.) My favorite award we gave out was to the person "Most Likely to Run a Marathon at the Age of 70". Oh, and "Most Likely to be Slapped by Their Ex." And as for it hurting people's self esteem? Naw. Not really. But I suppose my graduating class was more awesome than most. |
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| Guest Posts: n/a | Yeah i guess your right. This year they had "most likely to on Saturday night live". I was just curious. |
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| Everything happens for a reason. Full Member ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Orlando, Florida Age: 21 Posts: 210 Join Date: Oct 2008 | haha nah.. its all just in fun. ![]()
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| EC's Resident Grammar Nazi Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Boobyloverr! Out Status: I'm out like shoulder pads. Location: New Caprica Age: 21 Posts: 884 Join Date: Apr 2006 | I hate those superlative things. The two nominees for "Most Likely to Run for President" aren't even American Citizens. Hah.
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| Banned ![]() Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Parents, aunts, grandma, counselor, online friends Location: Central Alabama Age: 18 Posts: 2,360 Join Date: Jan 2008 | I was nominated for Funniest in Middle School, but seeing as how I was only nominated by two of my friends and I purposefully kept myself out of the popular scene, I lost it to some obnoxious shouter I hardly knew. Big surprise. |
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| Guest Posts: n/a | I got Friendliest and Biggest Flirt and was up for prom king but they gave it to a guy who doesn't dance or do anything at prom except sit with his girlfriend. I was pissed to say the least cuz i won the dance contest my junior AND senior year and danced with everyone white black it didnt matter. i do think that the elections hurt some feelings but at the same time they shouldnt be taken seriously bcuz most of the time it has to do with who you know and who you *censored*! sorry if that inappropriate but i know it to be a true fact |
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| I Can't Help You Fix Yourself Full Member ![]() Gender: Female Orientation: Garcons et filles Out Status: Seriously, Everyone knows Location: O-H-I-O! Age: 18 Posts: 2,066 Join Date: Feb 2008 | Quote:
I honestly don't think the school does this to try and make kids feel bad about themselves. The school (at least my school) does it to make memories for the kids because they can remember 'I was voted as having the best smile in high school' or 'I voted for whoever in whatever category.' It's sort of a tradition.Like Homecoming King and Queen. I mean, if you look at that, it can appear biased and unfair to others. It's just a thing in high school. I mean, I honestly didn't know anyone on Homecoming Court (all Seniors) that were depressed that they didn't win King/Queen. They looked at it as a memory, something they can look back on and say "I was on Court when I was a Senior. I may not have won King/Queen, but it was a great experience" and they're happy for the people that won King and Queen. I honestly don't think that someone would get depressed over the election thing. It's fair to everyone, everyone in that class has the chance to be voted for. For example, at my school, a lot of quiet, shy people got stuff like "Most Changed" or "Best All-Around".
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| GaGa's Knight in Flaming Armor Full Member Gender: 여왕 Orientation: Boys Boys Boys Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Jukjeon-dong, Yongin-si Age: 20 Posts: 1,823 Join Date: Aug 2007 | Polls aren't a popularity contest... Prom Kings and Queens are. But every year, the kids with the best smiles win for 'Best Smile'. The kids who dress best win 'Best Dressed'.
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