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Visibility: Does it have to be a perfect rainbow?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Zia Melora, Feb 16, 2015.

  1. Zia Melora

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    Would this ring read as gay to you?
    http://cdn-images.farfetch.com/10/41/68/79/10416879_2131588_322.jpg

    Years ago I had sneakers with those colors. I gave them away after I was told by one person it was gay shoes. I argued it didn't have all of the gay flag colors & was told so what.

    Presently I wouldn't mind something sublte. I haven't found any official pride jewelry that I like. Are rainbowish things like the above ring a good hint?


    http://www.linksoflondon.com/files/product_images/resized/12062-rainbow-zebra-charm-image-1_360x360$.jpg

    ^ What about the above? Only six colors.
     
  2. jay777

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    Well, they are kind of subtle :slight_smile:
    The ring is nice :slight_smile:

    I would not connect the zebra with pride at first sight but its nice...

    Have you thought of a rainbow bracelet... or earrings maybe ?


    And you might think about eye contact... looking at her, smiling, then looking away... not looking away straight away...
    and you might try a glance saying I want you...

    and you getting active, initiating conversations, making a nice remark for example...