Me personally I prefer personality over looks because I love people who are vocal and polite because that's what I consider beautiful. I know people have different thoughts over this so It's actually quite interesting. As for dating does outter beauty really bother you?
I think everyone has their beautifull sides... twist of mouth when they smile, squinting their eyes while talking, a kind gesture to animals... big or small... everyone has a beauty hidden in them. Physical attraction is another beast and I think we all have our "in" and "out" features on target gender. That can change depending on your emotional state, age or how drunk you are.
I pretty much agree with you, Unique_me. I've always been of the opinion that if you're a genuinely nice person, you are naturally more attractive. I've never heard any person say "Oh he/she's a lovely person but they're hideous".
True beauty to me is the personality. If a person is physically attractive but is boring, ignorant, deliberately unkind etc. then they'll do nothing for me. I think every person out there has at least one thing about them that can be considered attractive, be it hair, eyes, smile, style etc. and everyone's opinions of physical beauty are different anyway. The personality is the important thing.
Outer beauty DOES matter to me. A lot. I wouldn't touch someone I didn't find attractive. However, if they were a beautiful asshole, it still wouldn't work out.
Beauty is in the smile, the stride in their step and the radience they project when they are working. What I find beautiful is the personality.
I like to find beauty in other people. Male, female, and non-bonfires But, I like to find flaws too. It's just something I do. Beauty is something everyone has the potential to have to me. I truly believe that. Some people just have it a little easier. The only person I can't see as beautiful is myself.
Beauty to me is heart, soul and personality. Someone can be drop dead gorgeous but have a awful personality i am not interested.
I define beauty sheerly through how physically attractive somebody is. You can be a good person but to me that isn't the same as being beautiful. These are two different words for two different occasions.
I couldn't define it...it's sort of like quality, or art; you know it when you see it. Some have called the perception of beauty as a perception of harmony, or completeness...call it what you will, there is no one thing you can point to in a person that makes them beautiful, simply because it is not an inherent quality in that person, rather it is in the eye of the beholder...it is entirely subjective.
Being aware of who you really are, specially your own flaws. Being honest. Being able to see the value on everything and everyone, and respect them (not just 'tolerate them'). The ability to keep your mouth shut before you spread gossip or act childish. Being curious and keep wondering, even if you think you know the answers already. Doing research on your own. Having a sense of humor. Being as brave as warm. Being independent, and also being your own master... And after all that... Being humble! That's part of what I find beautiful in someone.
Beauty can be both personality and looks. I prefer personality a bit more, but the looks still matter (But I'm not a totally unrealistic shallow asshole). If looks didn't matter at all, gay men would just date women if they liked their personalities. Doesn't work that way.
I prefer personality over looks but at first i only am attracted to the personality and whats on the inside of a girl (not in a perverted way) then i end up getting attracted to her physically as well. with guys i value looks more then personality at first but if they dont have a good personality i am no longer attracted to them.
For starters, if you all looked in a mirror, you'd definitely see one example. <3 Simply put, beauty is when somebody maintains that light inside of them, despite what may try and blow it out. They use that light to warm and guide others. When somebody is on top of their game, it shows. Their entire body will be engulfed in that light, and you will be hard pressed to judge them solely on their appearance, because you become entranced by their beauty. Not distracted by it.
Look at the way a person looks at the sunset. If you can't bring yourself to tear your eyes away from their face so you can see the sunset for yourself, you know you've found someone beautiful.
