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Flirting with Straight guys

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by stimpacks, Feb 20, 2015.

  1. stimpacks

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    Does anyone else do this or am I just a scumbag? I don't take it too the extreme when I do this and I don't get way into it where I end up hurt or something. I just joke and talk to the guys and maybe touch their shoulder or arm. Its weird because when they do find out I'm gay, they just think its funny.
     
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    I think it's a very good thing that you are not ashamed of being attracted to guys, so kudos
     
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    I have to a friend but I knew he wouldn't get offended
     
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    I flirt with everyone >.>
     
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    I flirt with em too. But I usually don't know if they are straight or not. But I don't take it to the extreme.
     
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    Flirt? With them? What?! I get beast-mode competitive with them. All the stereotypical masculine behavior I will do in order to get their attention. Sometimes I'll touch friends on the arms. That's how I flirt. It's never extreme, we love "playing" around and acting like jerks.(!)
     
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    Haha, I don't think I even know how to flirt with a guy into guys.
     
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    For some reason I'm more nervous trying to talk to other gay guys unless ive been drinking
     
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    I don't know really how to flirt, but I'm generally more animated around straight guys. Of course, everyone at school thinks I'm a girl and I haven't come out yet.
     
  10. Coming from someone with a ton of straight guy friends, it's usually not a big deal when they're not close-minded.

    I'm not that confident when it comes to flirting anyways, but my friends did bring me out of my shell in that case. I just give them a complement and they do that same, no biggie.
     
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    I do with a couple friends that I know are ok with it.
     
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    Well, I'm straight (Kinsey 1, pretty sure). And taken. And I can tell you that I wouldn't mind if a gay guy hit on me NOT KNOWING I'M STRAIGHT...but if a gay guy hits on me and knows I'm straight, then I get upset.
     
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    I don't know how to flirt and even then, I'd be too nervous too because the last thing I'd want to do is make someone uncomfortable. I do compliment straight guys though if I have feeling they won't get offended but it never goes further than that and it rarely happens.
     
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    Compliments are one thing. Not acknowledging our sexual orientation and continuing with the flirting after we let you know we're straight, is another. You can't use the "everyone is a little gay" principle because that's simply not true. Like, I wouldn't hit on a lesbian if I knew her sexual orientation.
     
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    im too scared to flirt with girls XD
     
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    When im single this is the story of my life. Haha :slight_smile: It's all in good fun.
     
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    Nah, I wouldn't go there. Haha.


    There are so many hot straight guys on those chat rooms I go on it's not even funny
     
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    Only in a joking manner, with them flirting back.
    Which has only happened twice so far.
     
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    I try not to flirt with them. I really do. I've made some progress over the years, but I still have to put forth some effort at times to rein myself in. The problem is that I often find them more attractive than many gay guys. In similar turn of phrase to what straight girls often say, if he's attractive, he's either taken or straight.
     
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    This ^ I love it hahaha.

    For me the flirting is all good fun. I think the part that I like most is keeping them guessing about what I really want.

    Some of my closest straight friends have come from flirting (also found some who identified as straight then gave it a second thought after getting to know me a bit more). It's a great way to get to know someone and open up that communication channel. Flirt, make friends, enjoy yourself! :kiss: