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F**king fuck you! I do not live to wipe peoples asses!!!

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  1. ChloeKiss

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    How about I shove my plastic 10 inch up your ass customers?! You ALL look like you'd enjoy it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I AM SO DONE WITH WAITRESSING. HOLY FUCK! So some decent people come in but these pieces of shit that act like i'm some fucking dormat should go eat shit for all I care! I have come so close to beating the living shit out of some. Fuck people. Such wankers.

    The next time you stupid fucks do this.. I swear to god I fucking SWEAR TO GOD. ARGH!!! :bang::bang::bang:
     
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    Costumers at the motel I work at are fuck faces too...
     
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    (*hug*)

    Take a few deep breaths...

    better now ? (*hug*)

    I'd say try to remember the positive people... and be totally indifferent to the other ones...

    (*hug*)
     
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    I just remember these fuckheads so well.. the good ones are like always the ones that don't look like rich douchebags. I just hate people sometimes aye. No wonder I keep my guard up.
     
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    When I worked as a call center agent for a major cell phone company, I had this exact same thought about a lot of our customers who would call in. Now admittedly I didn't and still don't have the balls to do what a couple of Comcast's CSRs have done, where they changed the customer's name on the account to Asshole, Super Bitch, and C***. While a lot of people are up in arms about that news story, and yes, it was unprofessional and wrong of them to do, I would get my bottom dollar that those customers treated that agent badly enough to earn that. I know exactly how you feel.
     
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    Chloe (*hug*)
    Here breathe. Relax. Ok. Im gonna play some enigma ok?
    https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=INARMa8s7Qc
    Now were gonna be ok. Here's a shoulder rub. Rubs your shoulders* ooo you have a knot right there. Ok now im gonna brush your hair and then light a candle and then close your eyes and then ill close my eyes too. Ya.
     
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    Get another job, Chloe, just get another job... Everything but waitress. You are doomed to bump into jerks.

    Plus, I'm afraid one day you are going to lose it, and nothing good will happen later : You won't make them change, you'll get fired and you'll get famous.

    Seriously, get another job. I hate to see you like this, I really do.
     
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    Sorry you're having such a bad day. I have also waited before but it was in a Fine Dining Restaurant and to my surprise, I never had that much of a guest who complains too much and in fact were pretty nice to me but it's the people who I work with are the ones who gave me so much hard time that all I ever wanted was to finish my contract and leave.

    Is it possible that you look for an alternative job? I know that you suffer from SA too so I applaud you for working in a work where socialisation is required.
     
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    I don't want my best friend feeling bad. Try and leave work at work because you are only hurting yourself and the idiot customers have won. (*hug*)try and stay calm and if you need a friend I'm here for you as I hope you already know :icon_bigg
     
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    Time to get another job asap.

    As it was mentioned above, you are risking of being let go. Before it gets to that point, try to find something that not only will give you a chance to do something that is comparatively better but also leaves you with being on good terms with your current employer.
     
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    Any retail setting pretty much sucks because some people feel entitled to treat employees like crap, despite efforts made to provide good service. These customers are pretty much assholes. And so whenever people who treat you with decency and respect show up, it feels like a breath of fresh air.

    I am sorry you are going through this. Like the others said, I would consider finding another place to work, while trying to stick around here in the meantime.
     
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    Omg! That's terrible Trey! At least I know i'm not alone on this. Fuck customers.

    ---------- Post added 21st Feb 2015 at 11:24 PM ----------

    Omg.. I feel so much better! Thank you Master Andrew :wink: :lol:

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    I would get another job but I want to prove to my family that I can be independant and hold a job down! But this job takes so much of my self esteem.. I feel like shit there some nights. The only times I feel good are when someone is actually genuinely nice and not just for show. The assholes are obvious. Fake smiles and pathetic attitudes. I hate my boss sometimes too! She's an old bitch.

    I'll make it to 6 months and then i'm quitting.
     
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    Of course Chloe :slight_smile:
     
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    Aw thanks David! You're such a sweetheart! And a bloody good friend I might add! (*hug*)

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    I want to find another job but i've only been at this job just coming on 4 months. I need to stick with it :frowning2: I would feel like a failure if I left before 6 months.

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    Well.. I suffer with sort of minimal-bad social anxiety so when I feel like i'm being disrespected I feel it like a knife wound :frowning2:

    Fuck it i'll look for another job.. I just want to try hold on for 2 more months.
     
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    The way this job makes you feel, I think you owe it to yourself to find something else. If this job has such on impact on your self-esteem there is no reason to hang on to it, in order to prove something. You can still show that you can be independent by finding another, and better, job.

    I would suggest that you try to do your job search while continuing to work - so that you have some income coming in. Take the experience as a motivation and to keep encouraging yourself to find something else. Once you have found something else, give your notice.
     
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    Thank you for your advice! I think I might follow through with looking for another job! My mental health is more important.
     
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    Yep, if it's a rubbish job find something else and ditch it.


    Btw, I love that you censored 'f**king' but left 'fuck' unedited in the thread title :lol:
     
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    I also pour drinks for people so I'm a bargirl/waitress. Fucking people though aye.. :dry:
     
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    When I've felt slighted or unappreciated at a place of employment, a while before I leave, I just go in and work extra hard. I'm talking, I do everything above and beyond my job. I do it until everybody begins to notice, "Holy shit, ___ is doing a lot!" and customers/clients compliment me to my superiors. Basically, everything that I do is being noticed, and everything I do is too noticeable to be ignored.

    And then I leave.

    Not only was I the better person, for putting up with any nonsense and bullshit, but it makes them realize, in my absence, just how much harder it is going to be to replace me. Not everybody is going to do more than the bare minimum, you know.

    I'm not sure if this is an option for you, but you seem like the type of lady who, more or less, doesn't want anybody, especially a pompous or asinine jackass, to treat you like shit -- and get away with it. I've done this twice and, both times, to favorable results. A few customers were aware of the drop in quality during my absence, and they acknowledged how good I was at what I did, so much so, a few of them have even offered to be references for me, for future jobs.

    If you can't leave a beneficial impression upon your superiors, you try for the customers/clients. You never know, the person you make a good impression on, might have just enough pull to get you into your next position.

    Always look for an advantage or an opportunity, even in the most shit hole of occupations, because if you don't, you might not get much better.

    *Cuddles*
     
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    That was a great read! Thank you so much for your advice Kaiser! I'll be sure to follow it! (*hug*) xx