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My first year on EC

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by PatrickUK, Feb 24, 2015.

  1. PatrickUK

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    So happydavid has been a member for one year now and his recent thread reminded me that I joined EC around the same time (one year tomorrow actually). I never imagined that I would be a daily visitor with almost 3,000 postings when I joined. I must have a lot to say. :icon_bigg

    I stumbled across EC by chance and it's probably my most visited website now... never imagined that either. Guess I must like it here.
     
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    I can personally say that your postings here are always well thought out, come from the heart, and that I enjoy reading your posts here, Patrick. Congrats one one year, and here's to many more. :slight_smile:
     
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    Well I also never thought I will stick around that long... coming to first year anniversary myself.

    I am glad you stick here and made this place more better. Your compassion, wisdom and friendly attidute is something everyone of us probably strive for.

    To more happy anniversaries, Patrick. (*hug*)

    PS: I also quit smoking around the same time I joined this site... so my first year free of smoke since 1996.
     
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    Awesome Patrick, you give such great advice, it's a pleasure to read your posts! Carry on is all I can say!
     
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    Wow, 3000 posts (and you were already out when you joined!). That's impressive. Thanks for all your calm thoughts and observations!
     
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    Thanks for all the wisdom you've shared over the past year, you're definitely a valued member here and certainly one of my favorite commentators. Best wishes to you as you begin your second year.
     
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    I'm happy you are still going strong!
     
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    Patrick, you're amazing, and we're lucky to have someone as avid as you are about providing support to fellow LGBTQ folks. :slight_smile: Happy 1-Year on EC! :thumbsup: (*hug*)
     
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    hey Happy Anniversary Patrick. like everyone else has said i enjoy your advise and compassion, Here's to many more.

    Cheers
     
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    Happy anniversary Patrick! :icon_bigg I always like reading your posts! :icon_bigg So I'm glad that you have a lot to say. (*hug*)
     
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    Patrick, you're such a sweetie!

    (*hug*)
     
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    *fistbumps* congrats :slight_smile:
     
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    I'm glad you joined because you are a very good friend of mine and your advice is always sound. Happy anniversary to you mate
     
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    EC wouldn't be the same without your kindness.
    You do have a lot to say, true, and it gives good vibes to all of us, so please never-ever keep it to yourself, keep sharing. People like you give me faith back in humanity... For a while :wink:
     
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    Top guy with top advice :thumbsup:
     
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    I'm not really sure I can say anything that hasn't been said.

    It is pretty obvious how valuable your contributions are, especially since you are out and have a few years under your belt. Not saying you're old, mind you, just socially learned. You know the good and the bad in life, and don't shy away from the latter, even if you only wish the former on folks. I believe this is what makes you so likable, that you don't just go to comfort somebody, but inform them -- and this is exactly why individuals appreciate your input and efforts. You don't sugar coat, but you don't pour salt into a situation either, which is something more people should learn to do: being balanced, as opposed to leaning too heavily one way (optimism) or the other (pessimism).

    You're a good man, and somebody I consider a honorary parental figure... for what it's worth. I'm sure others think fondly of you, and respect your presence. You've earned it, and are definitely deserving of such.

    Keep at it, good sir. You're doing just fine.
     
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    Thanks for all the helpful advice you've given me! Much appreciated, and I'm sure a lot of other members feel the same :slight_smile:
     
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    It's been four months since I last cut and your advice helped tremendously. (*hug*) Thank you.
     
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    i notice a lot of the things you posted and they're pretty well thought out and even give me new perspective on things! you're awesome!
     
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    Thanks for the kind comments everyone. :slight_smile: