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8th Nov 2008, 10:07 PM

Simple question- would you prefer your partner to be circumcised or uncircumcised? I realize that it doesn't make a big difference to some people. But I want real answers, hence no fence-sitting option.

thespanishheart · 8th Nov 2008, 10:11 PM

I honestly find circumcised to be more attractive.

I don't have a problem with uncircumcised, but if I had to choose between the two, it would be circumcised.

It's hard to explain why... I'm circumcised, so maybe I'm just more comfirtable with what I know LMAO

HighintheClouds · 8th Nov 2008, 10:43 PM

I've never exactly had to chance to admire many circumcised/uncircumcised penises but I don't know why I prefer circumcised ones..

HighintheClouds · 8th Nov 2008, 10:44 PM

And here I go again with my incredible stupidity. I voted for 'prefer uncircumcised' reading it as 'prefer circumcised'..

ArcusPuer · 8th Nov 2008, 10:49 PM

i said i prefer uncircumcised. i think its coz i am myself and i find it looks more appealing than teh cut look.
of course this i me with my whole 14 years of virginity as experience.....
so im pretty sure its just coz i am myself.

Brett · 8th Nov 2008, 11:41 PM

Circumcized seems more normal to me; however, an uncircumcized penis has always had a certain alure to it.....=]

8th Nov 2008, 11:51 PM

I prefer circumsized but I wouldn't reject an uncircumsized person.

waitingsucks · 9th Nov 2008, 01:45 AM

oh I love to fence sit.

I used to care but now I couldn't give a crap, and it's bad in my opinion to be like "oh no It must be circumsized" because they come in all different shapes and sizes that you may be suprised what you like in the end. hence, don't make up your mind in advance

Kimi · 9th Nov 2008, 01:47 AM

I honestly couldn't care less.

What kind of person is that if you met an amazing guy and started dating but broke up when he took his clothes off and find out he is uncut/cut?

But I think the true fact is that people tend to prefer what they have from other.
So if you are cut you prefer cut and if you are uncut you prefer uncut it's not choice but I think it's more to do with human's instinct or something

**Gerry** · 9th Nov 2008, 01:50 AM

I don't really care either way but I checked off prefer uncircumsized. I've been with both before and there's not a whole lot of a difference. I wouldn't reject someone that had one over the other though.

HighintheClouds · 9th Nov 2008, 01:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kimi

I honestly couldn't care less.

What kind of person is that if you met an amazing guy and started dating but broke up when he took his clothes off and find out he is uncut/cut?

But I think the true fact is that people tend to prefer what they have from other.
So if you are cut you prefer cut and if you are uncut you prefer uncut it's not choice but I think it's more to do with human's instinct or something

Meh... Actually... I'm uncut but somehow I like the idea of cut. So that proves that hypothesis of yours wrong.

Back to the drawing board! =P

Kimi · 9th Nov 2008, 02:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by HighintheClouds

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kimi

I honestly couldn't care less.

What kind of person is that if you met an amazing guy and started dating but broke up when he took his clothes off and find out he is uncut/cut?

But I think the true fact is that people tend to prefer what they have from other.
So if you are cut you prefer cut and if you are uncut you prefer uncut it's not choice but I think it's more to do with human's instinct or something

Meh... Actually... I'm uncut but somehow I like the idea of cut. So that proves that hypothesis of yours wrong.

Back to the drawing board! =P

Damn you!!!! Smart asian!!!!

Janvier · 9th Nov 2008, 03:14 AM

I like both but I prefer uncut.

davo-man · 9th Nov 2008, 03:50 AM

Probably prefer uncircumcised, because that's what's familiar to me (if you get what I mean). That said, I really wouldn't care either way. I mean, I'm not going to dump someone because of what their parents did/didn't do when they were a baby.

**Jim1454** · 9th Nov 2008, 05:34 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kimi

I honestly couldn't care less.

What kind of person is that if you met an amazing guy and started dating but broke up when he took his clothes off and find out he is uncut/cut?

Exactly. Why set yourself up for disappointment by taking a stand on this question? Because the guy of your dreams may not fit into what you've said you prefer. And then what?

The fact of the matter is, they come in all shapes and sizes. Some are really awesome, and some are not nearly as nice. Circumsized vs. not is only one aspect to consider.

Jeimuzu · 9th Nov 2008, 06:09 AM

I prefer it natural. xD

Miaplacidus · 9th Nov 2008, 08:15 AM

I don't really care... but I prefer uncircumcised because I'm more used to it. I've never been with someone who was circumcised, so I don't really know how to deal with it lol.

SlickyPants · 9th Nov 2008, 09:04 AM

I prefer circumcised but it isn't an issue that would decide if I would or wouldn't date somebody.

I am myself circumcised and growing up I have never seen an uncut penis. Myself, my family, friends, people in showers/changing rooms at the pool/gym were all circumcised! I didn't witness my first uncircumcised penis until I was about 17 and I was watching some porn and ironically I found it to be strange and unnatural! "What the hell is wrong with that guys penis?!" I said to myself.

I like to think I'm a little more educated about it now and it isn't so weird anymore. I think naturally, from growing up, I've developed a preference for circumcised but it certainly isn't the deal-breaker.

9th Nov 2008, 09:17 AM

I really don't care. As long as they can use it, I'm fine with anything.

9th Nov 2008, 09:32 AM

I really don't care. a penis is a penis

View Poll Results: Do you prefer circumcised or uncircumcised?
Strongly prefer circumcised	12	12.24%
Prefer circumcised	25	25.51%
Slightly prefer circumcised	16	16.33%
Slightly prefer uncircumcised	19	19.39%
Prefer uncircumcised	18	18.37%
Strongly prefer uncircumcised	8	8.16%
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8th Nov 2008, 10:07 PM	#1
Drizzt DoUrden Guest Posts: n/a	Guys- Your preference Simple question- would you prefer your partner to be circumcised or uncircumcised? I realize that it doesn't make a big difference to some people. But I want real answers, hence no fence-sitting option.

8th Nov 2008, 10:11 PM	#2
thespanishheart EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Not out at all Location: Tampa Bay, FL Age: 22 Posts: 417 Join Date: Nov 2008	Re: Guys- Your preference I honestly find circumcised to be more attractive. I don't have a problem with uncircumcised, but if I had to choose between the two, it would be circumcised. It's hard to explain why... I'm circumcised, so maybe I'm just more comfirtable with what I know LMAO

8th Nov 2008, 10:43 PM	#3
HighintheClouds Well Met (Touché!) Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Tis only men I stare at. Out Status: I think rumours spread way too fast for my liking. Age: 21 Posts: 385 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Guys- Your preference I've never exactly had to chance to admire many circumcised/uncircumcised penises but I don't know why I prefer circumcised ones.. __________________ 希望, Hope, Espoir, Esperanza, Speranza All these words.. All one meaning... We're all over the world. May we find this wherever we are.

8th Nov 2008, 10:44 PM	#4
HighintheClouds Well Met (Touché!) Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Tis only men I stare at. Out Status: I think rumours spread way too fast for my liking. Age: 21 Posts: 385 Join Date: Jun 2008	Re: Guys- Your preference And here I go again with my incredible stupidity. I voted for 'prefer uncircumcised' reading it as 'prefer circumcised'.. __________________ 希望, Hope, Espoir, Esperanza, Speranza All these words.. All one meaning... We're all over the world. May we find this wherever we are.

8th Nov 2008, 10:49 PM	#5
ArcusPuer Well Known Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: iuvenes amo Out Status: Out to anyone who asks. Location: Melbourne Age: 17 Posts: 187 Join Date: Oct 2008	Re: Guys- Your preference i said i prefer uncircumcised. i think its coz i am myself and i find it looks more appealing than teh cut look. of course this i me with my whole 14 years of virginity as experience..... so im pretty sure its just coz i am myself. __________________ xx The RAINBOW Boy =Ben

8th Nov 2008, 11:41 PM	#6
Brett Extreme Heat Warning! Full Member Gender: I am a MAN! ROWR!! =^_^= Orientation: Homo-capable Out Status: Out enough Location: Weatherford, TX Age: 19 Posts: 2,200 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Guys- Your preference Circumcized seems more normal to me; however, an uncircumcized penis has always had a certain alure to it.....=] __________________ Marching band: It's a religion Trip....trip....ip on red wine! Lady Gaga FTW! XD

8th Nov 2008, 11:51 PM	#7
Midnight Angel Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Guys- Your preference I prefer circumsized but I wouldn't reject an uncircumsized person.

9th Nov 2008, 01:45 AM	#8
waitingsucks Rainbow Philosopher Full Member Gender: XY Orientation: Guylove (between 2 guys) Out Status: 3 people. Location: Melbourne, Victoria, Australia Age: 19 Posts: 2,736 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Guys- Your preference oh I love to fence sit. I used to care but now I couldn't give a crap, and it's bad in my opinion to be like "oh no It must be circumsized" because they come in all different shapes and sizes that you may be suprised what you like in the end. hence, don't make up your mind in advance __________________ "Do you think so little of me that if I had a choice, I'd choose to live my life dodging prejudice and discrimination?" What's all this stuff about choice? You are the way you are and no one can tell you contrary to what you know in your heart.

9th Nov 2008, 01:47 AM	#9
Kimi EC's Biggest Horndog Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: A few people Location: Japan Age: 22 Posts: 3,017 Join Date: Feb 2007	Re: Guys- Your preference I honestly couldn't care less. What kind of person is that if you met an amazing guy and started dating but broke up when he took his clothes off and find out he is uncut/cut? But I think the true fact is that people tend to prefer what they have from other. So if you are cut you prefer cut and if you are uncut you prefer uncut it's not choice but I think it's more to do with human's instinct or something __________________ AMAZINGLY, I GET HOTTER WITH MY CLOTHES OFF

9th Nov 2008, 01:50 AM	#10
Gerry We're all a little mad! EC Moderator Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Some people Location: Las Vegas Age: 24 Posts: 5,542 Join Date: Jan 2008	Re: Guys- Your preference I don't really care either way but I checked off prefer uncircumsized. I've been with both before and there's not a whole lot of a difference. I wouldn't reject someone that had one over the other though. __________________ "Everybody's journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality".-James Baldwin

9th Nov 2008, 03:14 AM	#13
Janvier يَناير Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: France Age: 22 Posts: 849 Join Date: Aug 2008	Re: Guys- Your preference I like both but I prefer uncut. __________________ Uncertainty excites me.

9th Nov 2008, 03:50 AM	#14
davo-man Aspiring RENThead Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Completely Out (YAY) Location: Australia Age: 22 Posts: 3,709 Join Date: Nov 2006	Re: Guys- Your preference Probably prefer uncircumcised, because that's what's familiar to me (if you get what I mean). That said, I really wouldn't care either way. I mean, I'm not going to dump someone because of what their parents did/didn't do when they were a baby. __________________ The Joker Rules all.... TwoFace comes a close second! My Friends are the best people in the world Ross: Wow, you guys sure have a lot of books about being a lesbian. Susan: Well, you know, you have to take a course. Otherwise they don't let you do it.

9th Nov 2008, 06:09 AM	#16
Jeimuzu Wreck Cognition Full Member Gender: Heterogametic Orientation: Rawr. Out Status: 99% out. Location: Middlesbrough Age: 23 Posts: 1,744 Join Date: Aug 2007	Re: Guys- Your preference I prefer it natural. xD __________________

9th Nov 2008, 08:15 AM	#17
Miaplacidus Cheshire Cat Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gayer than not Out Status: Everyone who asks Location: Atlantida, Uruguay Age: 22 Posts: 5,093 Join Date: Feb 2007	Re: Guys- Your preference I don't really care... but I prefer uncircumcised because I'm more used to it. I've never been with someone who was circumcised, so I don't really know how to deal with it lol. __________________ We are all mad here.

9th Nov 2008, 09:04 AM	#18
SlickyPants EC Addict Full Member Gender: Male Orientation: Gay Out Status: Out to everyone Location: Winnipeg, MB, Canada Age: 26 Posts: 541 Join Date: Oct 2007	Re: Guys- Your preference I prefer circumcised but it isn't an issue that would decide if I would or wouldn't date somebody. I am myself circumcised and growing up I have never seen an uncut penis. Myself, my family, friends, people in showers/changing rooms at the pool/gym were all circumcised! I didn't witness my first uncircumcised penis until I was about 17 and I was watching some porn and ironically I found it to be strange and unnatural! "What the hell is wrong with that guys penis?!" I said to myself. I like to think I'm a little more educated about it now and it isn't so weird anymore. I think naturally, from growing up, I've developed a preference for circumcised but it certainly isn't the deal-breaker.

9th Nov 2008, 09:17 AM	#19
GunStarre Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Guys- Your preference I really don't care. As long as they can use it, I'm fine with anything.

9th Nov 2008, 09:32 AM	#20
Myke Guest Posts: n/a	Re: Guys- Your preference I really don't care. a penis is a penis

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