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What would "end" it right then, for you?

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  1. MisterTinkles

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    Whether you are just getting to know each other, heavily into dating, or in a relationship....

    What would immediately terminate the relationship for you? Bad manners? Lying? Cheating? Stealing? Drug use? Dangerous driving? Being a drunk? Verbally abusive? Bad B.O.? Or something else??


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  2. BryanM

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    1. "I'm extremely socially conservative"
    2. "I'm almost to the point of anti-atheism"
    3. "I'm down to a pack of cigarettes or a six pack of beer a day"

    Other than those and more obvious deal breakers such as abusiveness, I try to stay open.
     
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    Snooping on my communications.

    I'd lay traps for it too.

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    Um abusive guys, drunks, drug addicts, cheaters, stealers, and anyone who seems dangerous. If they had bad B.O then I would just force them to take a shower.
     
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    For me it is --

    Stupidity: not that someone has not learned something yet, but those who work hard at being as stupid as they possibly can.

    Laziness: people who expect others to do their bidding and work for them.

    BAD manners/etiquette: ok, nobody is purrfect, but I'm talking about common sense stuff.....dont leave your cart in the middle of the isle and walk off, don't chew with your mouth open, don't scratch/fart/belch in public, don't suck back snot or hack crap up in public, wearing decent clothing (not skin tight, see thru hooker clothes), etc....

    Dis'n my granny, cats, Wonder Woman, Doris Day, Donna Summer, Garfield, or Boy George.

    Violent/unsafe/destructive driving: if you don't care about your life, thats one thing....not caring about someone else's is totally unacceptable. And WHY would I want to be with you anyway, if you don't give a damn about my life?

    Lying, cheating, stealing, playing me, head games, dishonesty, etc....

    Druggies, alcoholics, gamblers (not talking about the odd lottery ticket), verbal/physical abusers, etc....
     
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    Disgusting habits
    All of a sudden starting to act and look masculine (I'm attracted to femininity only)
    Trying to be the dominant one in the relationship
    Using marijuana
     
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    If I ever hear/find out my man is cheating on me. That man is dead. I'm erasing his existence. He is no more.
     
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    Being a dope fiend, having no sympathy for others, unkempt, profane language and just an all around asshole, pretty much all of my qualities. :thumbsup:
     
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    Having smoked marijuana three times and not having enjoyed it a single time, I still don't understand the antipathy. :frowning2:
     
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    Any kind of verbal or physical abuse would be an instant-end for me. There'd be no second chances for them.

    If they were angered too easily. I have a friend who was in a relationship like that and they fought all the time. I could never do that. Being that volatile wouldn't work with me.

    I've been in relationships with girls and any complaints I had were always minor, not relationship-ending ones. You can do a lot to try and make a relationship work, but there are some times where it's just best to call it quits.
     
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    If you use ganja, you're gone-ja!

    I couldn't help myself there don't hurt me.
     
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    You will have to tell me your methods, oh great one. It would not be an end for me, but I have constantly said that trust, love, and respect are keys to our relationship.

    My major issues:

    Cheating
    Stealing
    Emotional/physical/sexual abuse(i.e. this could be consider crossing boundaries we have setup too, have safe words, kids)
    Hard drug abuser
     
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    Oh snap! You have street cred?

    LOL. <3
     
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    Without a doubt poor hygiene.

    Nothing could be worse.
     
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    Abuse, stealing, or cheating
     
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    1) abuse
    2) "i like to look at myself in the mirror for long periods of time" (basically when they focus on their own needs in a relationship)
    3) smokers/ narcotic users
    4) saying " i love you" after the first day......nahh papa, not going to happen....
     
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    Not being human is a pretty hefty deal breaker for me.
     
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    In no particular order : smoker; racist; misogynistic; cruel to animals; religious...all instant deal breakers
     
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    It's funny you started this thread. I just recently started talking to someone I met on a dating site and he seems cool and we have a lot in common except he smokes which is a pet peeve of mine. We haven't met yet or brought up smoking but I'm going to give him the benefit of doubt and hope he's quitting if not idk if I could date him....