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Old 10th Nov 2008, 10:23 AM   #1
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Default Just out of interest...

Do most of the gay guys on here still find lesbians hot? And vise-versa?

Because I know that's often the case with straight guys, and it's the case with me too...
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 11:09 AM   #2
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Uh... I think what makes gay guys gay is not finding women who like women hot... actually not finding women hot at all.
And I think what makes a lesbian a lesbian is not finding boys who kiss boys hot. Same goes to the lesbians; they don't find men hot at all either.

Seriously, if you're 'gay' but you find lesbians sexually stimulating, I might do some rethinking.
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 11:19 AM   #3
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...Isn't the point of being gay that you don't find women hot? >_>
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 11:20 AM   #4
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Default Re: Just out of interest...

Lol, while I'm not turned on much by women...

...so no, I'm not attracted to lesbian pornography :P .
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 11:23 AM   #5
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Default Re: Just out of interest...

Well, I don't tend as a rule to find men hot, but when I do, you can bet that he's gay. In fact, if I like a guy, the chances that he's gay go up about a hundred-fold. I could be some single gay guy's gaydar...as in, if ccdd likes him, he's definately gay...

Sadly though it's mainly straight girls that I find hot. Gay men and straight girls - I should have been a man!!!!!
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 11:27 AM   #6
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Lesbianism as a whole interests me. I find two girls hot (sorry, but its true) and that's mainly why I watch shows like South of Nowhere and The L Word. But I don't identify as gay anyway so that would be why.
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Well, I don't tend as a rule to find men hot, but when I do, you can bet that he's gay. In fact, if I like a guy, the chances that he's gay go up about a hundred-fold. I could be some single gay guy's gaydar...as in, if ccdd likes him, he's definately gay...

Sadly though it's mainly straight girls that I find hot. Gay men and straight girls - I should have been a man!!!!!
My friend Kelsey has the same problem, actually

Probably the best scenario ever. We were at our State Honors Choir rehearsal/concert and Adonis (that's the only way to describe him) was there too. Here's how it played out...
Me: Do you find him cute?
Kelsey: Ohmigod... so cute!
Me: Alright, I'm going for it!
-2 hours later-
Kelsey: So... Am I still only attracted to gay guys?
Me: We made out in the bathroom... so... yeah
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 12:16 PM   #8
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Default Re: Just out of interest...

No... No lesbian porn for me...
I like watching straight porn and sometime I go like 'Oh...she is hot' but that happens 1 time out of 10 but I don't find lesbian porn at all. I mean I can't get off with that

And why the hell am I starting to talk about porn and getting off......
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 12:20 PM   #9
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Default Re: Just out of interest...

i'm bi, so i can't speak from my expirience at all, but i think some gays find two people of the opposite sex together atractive, but they are not at all atracted to being with a member of the opposite sex. does that make sense?


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Probably the best scenario ever. We were at our State Honors Choir rehearsal/concert and Adonis (that's the only way to describe him) was there too. Here's how it played out...
Me: Do you find him cute?
Kelsey: Ohmigod... so cute!
Me: Alright, I'm going for it!
-2 hours later-
Kelsey: So... Am I still only attracted to gay guys?
Me: We made out in the bathroom... so... yeah
LOL...poor kelsey...

i get along with gay men so much better than straight men, especially fabulous gay men.
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 12:54 PM   #10
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My friend Kelsey has the same problem, actually

Probably the best scenario ever. We were at our State Honors Choir rehearsal/concert and Adonis (that's the only way to describe him) was there too. Here's how it played out...
Me: Do you find him cute?
Kelsey: Ohmigod... so cute!
Me: Alright, I'm going for it!
-2 hours later-
Kelsey: So... Am I still only attracted to gay guys?
Me: We made out in the bathroom... so... yeah
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I need your friend right about now lol.
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 02:27 PM   #11
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Gay guys getting it on do nothing for me - penis is really not my thing at all.
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 02:49 PM   #12
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Not really. For me, women and sex do not mix at all. Perhaps a result of my upbringing? I can and do find women aesthetically pleasing, but that is a very different sensation from finding somebody "hot".
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 02:57 PM   #13
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Sorry, no... Woman+woman+sex= No thank you, squared. BlueRose explained it pretty well. I can appreciate a woman with a good face/figure etc, just not sexually.
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 03:03 PM   #14
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I think gay guys are more attractive than straight guys. If I find out a guy is gay I'm almost instantly more attracted to him (possibly because I'm purposely "liking" guys that I have no chance with because I really don't want to be with guys...who knows, just a theory of mine). When it comes to porn I enjoy two girls, two guys is pretty hot also, but I just feel awkward watching a guy and a girl.
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Not hot, no, but pretty damn awesome. I love lesbians.
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 04:54 PM   #16
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Uh... I think what makes gay guys gay is not finding women who like women hot... actually not finding women hot at all.
And I think what makes a lesbian a lesbian is not finding boys who kiss boys hot. Same goes to the lesbians; they don't find men hot at all either.

Seriously, if you're 'gay' but you find lesbians sexually stimulating, I might do some rethinking.
No thats completely wrong. Physical attraction is not what makes gay guys gay. Its not like a cootie thing.
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 06:33 PM   #17
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Not hot, no, but pretty damn awesome. I love lesbians.
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 07:18 PM   #18
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Hum.

Funnily enough, two guys together doesn't do anything for me. It's like trying to cook a turkey with a butane lighter. But I think two girls together are hot. And a guy and a girl.

But this might just be based off scenarios that I can directly transplant myself into.
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Well I can recognize someone HOT when I see it, regardless it's gender.

I think the hotness and atraction it's been mixed here.
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Old 10th Nov 2008, 11:22 PM   #20
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I can tell if a girl is attractive but I don't think I've ever found any woman hot.

Lol, a couple days ago in my Biology class this kid Aaron asked me if I was gay and I said yes and he was like 'So do men turn you on?'
I had to laugh at him cause that's like, obvious
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