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do you love yourself ???

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by joshy the queen, Mar 9, 2015.

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DO you love yourself !?????! ^___^

  1. YES I DO !! YAY ME I LOVE ME OMG !!!

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  2. yes i think so

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  3. a little i think -.-

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  4. NO !!! NEVER ASK ME THIS AGAIN OR ELSE

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  5. other /i want to comment and tell you what

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  1. joshy the queen

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    i ask people this question everyday cause i love and admire myself more than i do for others (except my mom :lol:slight_smile:
     
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    There are some times where I feel extremely confident, but most of the times, I laugh at myself and feel like I'm pathetic. It's not hatred, and my confidence isn't love. It's sort of a blurry area in the middle. I view myself like some sort of entertainment sort.

    What the hell am I going to do today?
    What stupid shit will I commit?
    How am I so damn funny?

    I am one of the funniest people I know, both negatively and positively, and I laugh at and pity myself a lot. Sometimes I find it sad. Other times I just find it funny.
     
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    <--------love myself.
     
  4. NingyoBroken

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    I love myself on the inside, figuratively speaking.

    But as for the outside, I couldn't hate it more.
     
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    I like myself, but there are some things I wish I could change.

    For example, wishing to change.

    It's alright most of the time.

    EDIT: when the hell did "alright" suddenly become "not a word"?
     
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    I voted "a little". I wouldn't say I love myself, I can be pretty harsh on myself or sweep achievements under the rug. And I definitely feel most of the time like I could be much better. But I'd say over the last few months I'm learning to appreciate the good things about me, and becoming more self-assured in some ways. So my self-love is on the up :slight_smile:
     
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    No, I do not.
     
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    *Do not make joke about: "usually a couple of times a day." Just don't Tiger!*


    Seriously though, I do love myself. And I wish more others would do the same (love themselves I mean, I'm not saying everyone should be required to love me :lol: ). If you can't start by loving yourself or at least trying to, everything else becomes tainted by that negativity. There are times when I don't like certain aspects of myself, but at least once I know somethings bothering me I can start to tackle it. Like everyone else I'm a work in progress. Nobody's perfect, but the progress is what matters.
     
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    Maybe a little but there is still plenty of self-loathing to go around.
     
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    After so many years of hating who I am, I am slowly beginning to learn to love and accept myself :slight_smile:
     
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    I hate the non-affirming people around me more than I hate myself. I just said a little.
     
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    Yes. Maybe a little too much sometimes.
     
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    I do love myself now! But I hate my past self! I have done lots of things in the past that I really really am feeling bad right now. I wish I didnt do those things
     
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    Well, I'm trying to. I would say I've come a long way since last year I had trouble even looking in the mirror without feeling depressed and I would harm my body cause I hated it so much :/ And then I hated my personality. Now I'm kinder to myself and it feels much nicer haha
     
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    The first step to loving someone else is to learn to love yourself, and I love myself a lot~! My body is another story of course :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Yes, nowadays I do. It has taken me a long time, and during the past year I've improved much on it. I think I'm awesome, even though I still have days when I can't get out of the bed.

    I can see it in the way I listen to myself, what I want or don't want to do. I cook delicious meals to myself cause I am worth it. I don't go to gym cause I have to look fit - I go there cause it is good for my mind. I've learnt to say no to things I don't want to do. I'm more selfish, and I've learnt to put my own wellbeing first.
     
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    Yep. I wouldn't say I've "learned" to love myself, I have done things in my life and made decisions that have changed me into someone I can absolutely be proud of and that I can love. Of course I'm still a work in progress, I think the day you stop changing is the day you die (literally and figuratively). But working off of this baseline, I think that I'll be able to keep changing for the better and will never have to go back to a place where there is room to not love myself.
     
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    I put that I think so. If this were a few years ago I'd probably say that I didn't love myself since I was in a bad place. Now I'm getting better at loving myself as I get out more and learn more things. Not all the way there yet; but getting there!
     
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    I try to.
     
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