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Are you ever passive aggressive?

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  1. Burnedcloset

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    So, I've been really passive aggressive lately....mostly in part of my family's homophobia. I can't directly tell them it makes me mad.

    Are you passive aggresive? With who? Why?
     
    #1 Burnedcloset, Mar 9, 2015
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    No, I prefer to send you to hell directly.
     
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    I'm passive aggressive a lot whenever I think what someone is saying or doing is ridiculous. Especially with family.
     
    #3 Notlad, Mar 9, 2015
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    Almost always. With everyone.
     
    #4 waitwhat, Mar 10, 2015
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    I'm either avoidant when I don't care or I'm impulsive and confrontational.
     
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    I try not to be. I have had a rude case of passive aggressiveness happen to me though. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: I innocently stopped to look at something in a shop, when a woman came up behind me and loudly told her daughter "It annoys me when people can't even walk through a SHOP properly". Which was ridiculous because I only stopped to look at something on the shelves (in a shop, how outrageous!) and there was plenty of space to walk around.

    I was with my friend at the time, who loudly said "It annoys me when people can't even say excuse me!" on the way out, which apparently made her look sheepish.
     
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    Passive aggressive is pretty much my go-to most of the time.
     
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    Yes, it is my go-to. However, in my last relationship, I told my (at-the-time)boyfriend that I would act on anything that upset me instead of letting it go or being p/a and I managed fairly well (especially because I wasn't actually angry, but had the ingrediants for anger). The only thing that will make me actually agressive is to attack my family.
     
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    ^This.
     
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    Hell no!


    Well, yeah.


    But HELL NO!!!





    (!)
     
    #10 MisterTinkles, Mar 10, 2015
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    No. If someone pisses me off I'll tell them. Like this rude woman who tried to sneak in front of me in a queue, until I told her politely to get lost.
     
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    nah what makes you think that im passive agressive maybe it was the fact that when i gave you a baby chicken it was dead and i knew about it and still said happy birthday

    ---------- Post added 10th Mar 2015 at 10:30 AM ----------

    :bang:
     
    #12 riptide226, Mar 10, 2015
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    Sometimes, I guess. I'm bad at confronting people sometimes and I hate being aggressive, so if I can do it passively, I take that opportunity. But it's pretty rare.
     
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    Sometimes if someone's pissing me off I just beat the livin shit out of them since they can't function what leave me alone means.
     
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    Passive agressive is my last name XDDD
     
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    That's the only kind of aggressive for me~ I sit quietly, smile sweetly and am even friendly, but I am secretly plotting your demise on the inside... :badgrin:
     
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    I'm trying to be more direct and less sarcastic with people but every now and then I have to just say some thing snarky when someone says something stupid ...but I'm trying (!)
     
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    Depends.

    Anybody that can make me consider being passive aggressive, has deemed themselves a worthy challenge. Because normally I'll ignore it or wander off, and sometimes I'll attend to it directly, with a snappy remark or sharp joke, so to even put me into the position of needing to postpone a response/reaction, is impressive.
     
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    Only in gaming and on occasion when I'm pissed off
     
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    Hell yeah! It's a rare occurance when I drop my passivity and tell you off. You'd have to have really done something to piss me off that much.
     
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