I don't understand straight women.. It gets frustrating!

I think the same thing about straight boys...I literally can't understand what they see in "hot chicks"...They show me pictures of naked women with extremely fake boobs on their phones, and I can't figure out what's so great about them...I feel ZERO sex appeal towards them...Yep, I'm over 100% Gay...

 

It's called diversity. Not everyone likes girls, not everyone likes boys either. You can't expect every lady to be lesbian, just like I don't expect every guy to be gay.

 

Congrats, you're gay! I don't see what straight girls see in guys either, but that's because I'm....DUHN, DUHN, DUH....a lesbian.

 

I don't think straight people understand why lesbian are so interested in other women or why gay men are interested in other men either. And an asexual person probably wouldn't get why we are all fussed up about all of this sexual attraction thing, while a pansexual person would also feel the same, but in a different way.

We are a pretty fun bunch huh?

 

I honestly think a lot of it has to do with the whole "fairy tale" ending many girls are told from an early age. Basically, if you're told you need to have something to be accepted, respected, and happy, you'll probably start to believe it at some point.

Though a lot of teenage girls go after "bad boys", I think it's more of a thrill seeking experience, and when they get older, they'll start looking for men with more family raising qualities.

 

Not all straight girls are obsessed with finding a Prince Charming :dry: Something about your post comes off as quite judgemental. Maybe it's just the quality of people you hang about with or you need to figure out why women discussing their straight relationships make you so uncomfortable. The majority of my friends are straight and they don't fall about all day giggling about boys, neither do I just because I'm into men too. We have other things to think about, like our careers or entertainment or other things that don't necessarily involve discussing the 'hottest guys'. Are the girls you hang out with all aged 15 or under? :eek:

 

Because men are awesome(when they want to be:dry, and they big,strong,and manly. And they can pick me up in their arms,and screw me while standing.Even as a woman who plays around with other women know I can't get that with them.

 

me, being panromantic, have attractions to all genders, including guys. we panromantics/pansexuals dont care about gender. a lot of us mainly care about personality. i know a few cis straight girls who look for guys almost entirely for their personality. "prince charming" isnt about looks to them. its mainly about who will love them and protect them and be there for them and cherish them. and they look for the cis guys cause in the media, they are portrayed as that.
but not all guys are like that which can decieve women a lot.

 

I don't know, honest, all I wanted was someone "at my level", or someone I could learn from, that was all I was capable of... Clearly that proved something.
Some girls are gold diggers. It's sad, but that is how it was and is in some cases.
And precisely those women say the most venomous things about whores... :dry:

Well, if you were into guys, you'd know, Chloe :lol: Some of us are allright, I think... We even clean the house and listen... And we do care, even if we don't always let it show... Men are human beings too :icon_wink

Some girls like bad boys... And then they complain about their own choice... I think there must be something sexual involved there, you know... If they were able to make a clear distinction between sex and love, they would get into less troubles...
That doesn't mean we shouldn't help them when they are in troubles. Even if it's their own fault...

(*hug*) I'm dying to tell you some stuff, but I don't want to hear again what a charmer I am.

 

I ssuppose when your feelings are so strong for something it's difficult to comprehend someone feeling the exact opposite.

I really can't understand gay men to he honest, like how they can be romantic with guys and the anal thing. It's weird to me buy hey were not in the relationship or fucking them are we so it doesnt matter

And transgirls, I just don't get why. I know deep down their probably just feeling the same. But I don't get why anyone could wanna be female, given an option/ preference.

Your obviously passionate about women, like hell so am I. Diversity is a strange but brilliant concept

 

I don't understand people who like pistachio ice cream, either, but I don't spend much time thinking about it.

Lex

 

I'm okay with their attraction to guys, I just don't get the obsession with it to the point they devalue and invalidate lesbians. Like I get all the time 'Why don't you like dick?' and forcing their 'hot guy' opinions on me. I mean wow yeah, why DO I like the gender that gives 90% of women orgasms and not the gender that only gives 24% of women orgasms? LMAO

 

It's weird because I consider myself gay but could have sex with a woman. So I kind want to have a relationship with a guy but still look at girls who are cute as well. So I don't understand having no interest in either sex.

 

I think I sort of get where you're coming from. There were a couple girls I worked with once who talked about men constantly. I couldn't relate, and so I felt very out of place, and that's never a fun feeling to deal with. But I stopped feeling that way when I stopped thinking so much about the ways I was different from them and focused more on the ways we were the same instead. Finding common ground with people who are very different is fun!

 

I feel the same way about some straight men Chloe so ya I know exactly what you're talking about.

 

Perhaps many of said 'straight' girls are bisexual...especially he ones who love lesbian porn, hm.

As to why: no idea, people are different and like different things.

 

pistachio ice cream is the most vile thing in the entire world :eusa_naug


anyways, yeah, well i can relate. i cant imagine why anyone would find men romantically/sexually appealing either. but straight people cant imagine why gays find the same sex attractive either. which is why we're so hated, their failure to understand that we feel the same way they feel.

IDK, it's weird. people who like men/pistachio ice cream are weird.

 

I guess I don't really understand what is romantically appealing about a woman and what makes straight guys, lesbians, and even bi/pan folk go crazy over boobs and all that...

Can I upvote this into the frickin' high heavens? THANK YOU!(even though I know it was more a generalized reply)

I DO NOT get people's fascination with discussing sexual matters, nor do I get how someone can be sexy. <--- that word literally makes no sense to me.