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How sexually frustrated are you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by ChloeKiss, Mar 27, 2015.

  1. ChloeKiss

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    I'd say i'm about an 8/10! I crave a womans touch and I am so determined to find the girl of my dreams! I see all these cute lesbian couples on youtube and tumblr and sometimes in real life and I get so jelous! I wish I could have that :frowning2:

    I not only crave the sex but I crave the attention! I crave being the key to a girls heart! And I so want a girl to find a key to mine! Sadly no girls think i'm a lesbian based on how I look and act. I want another girl to love me and I want her perfume to stay on me at all times :frowning2: This is why I can't handle the fact that the girl I had been talking to for 3-4 months wasn't the one for me when we met. The positive thing about that though is we still adore eachother. I have let it go a fair bit now and I don't cry over her anymore.. I just thought we were meant to be. We still talk and are great friends but it just sucks you know? I've been waiting a long time for love to come along and I truly believed I had found it with that girl. I guess we are meant to be in eachothers life for another reason.

    I will keep fighting though and my faith will remain strong that I will find the girl of my dreams someday! I just wish it was sooner. x

    How about you girls/guys? Do you relate? Thanks!
     
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    I DO RELATE!!! I also wanted someone that can hug me when I am really stressed (especially this time). I just wish that he will come sooner. I just want to feel the warmth of being hugged. I also wish he is a gamer. UGH! I can't wait to meet him! Why is it that I can't find the perfect guy for me sooner? Why cruel world, WHY???!!!
     
  3. sporn

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    My sexual frustration is 10/10. I'm femme as well, but I'm also confused. I'm scared no girl will ever want to date me. I don't expect to find a girlfriend when I'm closeted, but being closeted is the only option when I'm confused. I also feel like everyone is forcing me to be straight. I hate that. When people do that I pretend to not want sex or a relationship even though I do.
     
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    Pretty friggin frustrated
     
  5. NingyoBroken

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    Well, I'm at the age where young boys are horny all the time.. Haha

    But considering my lack of "equipment".... I can do nothing.

    Yeah, it's quite frustrating.
     
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    Change the words girl(s) to guy(s), her to him/his, lesbian to Gay, and it pretty much describes what I'm going through...
     
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    Yes... I know I'm young but I shut myself out of a lot of romantic or sexual situations... Never having done anything... It's worse because my best friend has had several boyfriends and she has been having a fantastic time, knows what it feels like to be admired like that, etc.
     
  8. Gandee

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    I don't really crave for sex, but I do crave for another human touch. Many a night I imagine what it's like to be held, and be comforted while under stress. But just like anything, I will just go through life alone.
     
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    Pretty much 0/10 at the moment. I like being by myself and don't really want to give any time or commitment to a relationship right now.
     
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    Haven't had any sex in more than a year while I used to do it several times each week end with my ex-girlfriend... I'm craving for a man errrrrrrrrrrrrh ! I'd be satisfied with even a mere kiss a that point T-T



    I'd be a good 12/10
     
  11. Michael

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    That's why we like saturdays, huh?

    Zero sex drive here right now. So I'm frustrated because I can't be frustrated even. I don't miss somebody to screw, what I miss is my sex drive, it feels weird for somebody naturally horny to be so relaxed, I feel like half a person (no Smiths pun intended).

    Well, if you promise me to stay away from what is hurting, and are looking for a cuddle... Then maaaaybe I'm on.

    Not frustrated... Sad.
     
  12. Justinian20

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    I am more sad than frustrated here as I really desperately want to feel a man's touch and I want to be loved. I feel like I'm going to be lonely for a long time and I also want sex as well(not as much as romance, because I feel incomplete without a boyfriend and it hurts, so to take away the hurting feeling, I just cuddle stuff and imagine it as a guy who I'm cuddling with, (inanimate objects that are soft are cuddled)). I also just imagine sex and it feels like heaven and I'm kind of frustrated that I'm so old at 21 and I really just want someone(a he) to share my life with. I get frustrated that I might have to resort to being lonely for the rest of my life.(It makes me so sad and I just want to cry at the thought of being lonely).
     
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    I relate- I'm pretty sexually and romantically frustrated sometimes, especially since there are so many adorable couples on tumblr and youtube and so forth. I guess it comes from FINALLY realizing more clearly what I want and now that I do, it's exciting, but also it's so frustrating because it's so hard to find!

    Hopefully one day, with some patience, I'll find the girl of my dreams and have a happy life together!
     
  14. Fallingdown7

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    Eh for me It's like 0/10 these days surprisingly (must be the extra estrogen I take that decreases it for me). Usually if I do get horny, my hand can satisfy me enough. It's more that my desire for other people is pretty low right now, although I can half relate since it used to be the opposite for me. I feel lucky; better to be happy with no one then to constantly crave it.
     
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    0/10.

    i don't really get sexually frustrated, romantically frustrated [is that a thing?] is a completely different story tho, lol.
     
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    Not at all. I'm like acciocarrie. Romantically frustrated, maybe, but I can't say I've ever been sexually frustrated.
     
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    0/10.

    Though that number is directed at sexual frustration(of which there is none obviously), it can also be pretty much said for romance as well.

    I'm relatively happy being alone and doing my own thing.
     
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    right now i could care less about sex i just want to be held and told im beautiful. have some one brush my hair (i actually have hair long enough to be brushed now ^_^) and do each others nails.
     
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    Dial it up to 11/10. Everything just feels like a giant tease as things are presently, which is of course quite frustrating. All these good looking guys around school, around the gym, et cetera. But they are all straight. Shower/Locker-Rooms are the worst, good looking guys with no clothes on, but you know none of them would ever be interested in you. It is literally a super frustrating non-stop giant tease which is quite sexually frustrating. Doesn't help when you are talking with friends who are much more successful in regards to getting to sex. It sure would be nice if things would get better, but I wouldn't bet on that happening any time soon.
     
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    "These go to 11, that's one louder"
     
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