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Lossing my virginity with a hustle?

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  1. edy

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    *hustler, I mean

    Searching on the Internet, I came across a very interesting advert. The guy on the advert is very good-looking, seems nice and it says that the price is very reasonable. He can even take me to his own place. So I don't have to spend in getting a room

    Look, I've been really really trying to get laid with people that I actually know in real life, but no. Because I'm not transitioning everybody thinks I'm a gay man, so most of the guys I am attracted to are straight and not interested. So I give up. And, believe me, I'm not even that picky myself.

    I need to practice before I get to meet this guy, I don't want to experience pain when he smashes it into my bottom, any advices?
     
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    lol not kidding
     
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    Be careful.
     
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    You only get to lose your virginity once. I would advise you to consider this and the safety of this idea very carefully before proceeding.
     
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    But if I wait until prince charming arrives, I'm going to die being a virgin lol
     
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    Prince Charming will come! or someone who is your Prince Charming...someone who makes you feel like royalty! Don't give this special thing to some guy in an advertisement. Trust me it is a bad idea and you will end up regretting it.
     
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    I've been waiting for so long, and yes I know I'm going to feel a little pathetic about this. No one should pay for being loved, but I'm fed up lol

    And the advert says he's very nice ^^
     
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    you can't trust an advertisement that someone wrote about them self! they could have STDs! i promise waiting is worth it
     
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    *Lossing my virginity TO a hustler?

    fixed

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    What if I make him wear a condom? :rolle:
     
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    still not a good idea! All sorts of things could go wrong! May I ask how old you are?
     
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    And this fellow is going to think of you as a woman? Or does he see you as 'just another client'? Personally, I'd want to be sure I was treated like a woman, and not be pulled into something, only to discover I'm some fetish or my identity being disregarded.

    If you're wanting to have sex, by all means. But I have a suspicion, what you're actually looking for, is what adds to sex. Just going off what you've said, shared, and posted before.

    Your call what you do here, but I'll echo what has been said, be safe.


    You seem to already know where this could go. If that doesn't give you some pause for thought, then I doubt anything I could say will influence your decision.
     
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    Sure, I'm turning 22 very soon. And he must be 28
     
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    This guy is not a Prince Charming dear, hell he is a toad. Do not go after hustlers for gay sex, great way to get STI's. Wait and be patient. Make some gay friends if you want and see if any of them are curious and like you at all if you are so desperate for sex. However, I would not recommend this outside of a relationship. Also, WEAR A CONDOM!
     
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    Well, I don't really think he cares what my gender is as long as I pay him.

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    Desperate is a very harsh word but very accurate though :lol:
     
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    Yeah, you can say that again. The first time I had sex (it was straight sex) I felt used-- and I'm a guy. Guys usually don't feel used by girls-- at least not the people I know. Now every time we're all sitting around having a beer and they're talking about the times we lost our virginities and they come to me I have to look down, light a cigarette and look up grimly in the dark and say "I don't want to talk about it" in a scary voice.

    I'm wording it in a funny manner because that's how I cope with it everyday from now on, but it's really no laughing matter. I fucked up-- that's the only way to say it. There's no nice words about it. I got used like a napkin and it was so not cool.
     
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    Are you okay with him treating you like a man? Have you told him how you identify at least?
     
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    I haven't, but I guess he's going to accept it or I'll find someone else to do this job :lol:

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    I haven't even discussed the price with him (it's not there on the advert). I guess I better start saving