How often are you attracted to people?

We'd have to define 'attraction'.

I'm never not attracted to somebody. Some folks may catch my attention with an outfit, a spoken phrase, the way they walk, their attitude, or their looks. It's how long I stay steady with that attraction or it increases, that matters.

If you mean in a "dat body" manner, every other week or so, somebody really captures my attention. Between these WHOA-obvious moments, there are little blips. But I almost immediately start looking at the whole picture, because a nice shirt doesn't mean you're responsible, a clever line doesn't mean you're understanding, that little strut you do down the street doesn't mean you're a good lover, that appealing demeanor doesn't mean you're consistent. I start looking at how you respond to me, if we exchange contact, and how you vibe with me.

If you can respect me, then you can love me.

That is what seals attraction from me. Knowing, not assuming, you're going to be good for me.

 

A lot. I check out girls all the time.

 

All the time. Everywhere I go.

It's actually a bit annoying. And the thought that most of the guys I like will never like me annoys me too.

 

Every second of everyday. I check out guys all the time.

 

I'm horny all the time. Fucking hormones :icon_redf

I see attractive girls all the time. Men, not so frequently.

 

Any time I see a cute guy...

 

This... :tears:

Attractive people I see are mostly on the internet and are mostly on the other side of the world.

 

When I first embraced my newfound sexuality, SO. FREQUENTLY. But now that it's been a while, a rarely ever get lasting crushes. And they're mostly girls. I can like people, but it generally goes away after a couple of days or less. My long terms are very occasional -.-

 

But isn't there "that one guy" or "that one girl" that turns your head frequently? Surely you (the collective you) have that?

 

Pretty much once a day there's somebody for some reason or another I find attractive

 

I'll almost subconsciously find someone attractive every day, but then there are the people who make me turn around for a second look and go "woah." That's a lot less frequent.
And of course, there's the one person I'm consistently attracted to every time I see them.

 

At the moment... There is that one person I've been crushing on and dreaming about for months...

However there are moments when I see people out and about and I think, damn, you're hot!

 

I check out girls pretty often, but strong attraction is quite rare.

 

Very rarely. In fact I can count on one hand how many times I have been immediately attracted to a man. (Twice) In real life that is.

 

On the internet? Maybe every couple days. On a daily basis? Almost never.

 

Not very often... I find people attractive or sexy, but being an expat in a foreign country, I get a lot of unwelcome stares and questions, so I try to keep my head down and ignore people irl... T.T

 

Attracted sexually? Extremely rarely.

Attracted physically? Once in a while.

Attracted fashionably? Prolly once a week at least.

Attracted cerebrally? Very rare, cause I don't come across that many intelligent people.

Attracted personality wise? Sometimes, not often though.