Hurtful things your Friends might say?

My friend this is what she says:
Don't you want a real family?
LGBT people are weird/abnormal?
How will your kids survive without both a mother and a father?
How do people turn gay?
You chose this.
I don't understand how you can be lgbt.
Don't you want a proper life?

I hate this so called friend so Much. No matter how I try to explain it to her she's still very biased and opinionated.

 

alot of my friends use lgbt slurs like "gay" and fag" and some of them are lgbt aswell XD
but one thing that my friend said that annoyed me abit "how do you know unless youve fucked someone and its just sexual frustration." after 20 mins of talking she eventually got the idea. 1 less lgbt ignorant person in the world, yuno gasai awayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy

 

"Yeah, but are you sure you're Pansexual? Not like Omnisexual or just Bi? Because I read that Pansexuals are attracted to personality, and you say people are cute without knowing their personality"

That one really bugs me, because I can see where she's coming from, but at the same time, it feels like she's saying I'm wrong about who I am.
I've told her a million times that she can call me Bi if it makes her more comfortable, but that won't change the fact that I prefer Pan.

I know she's just trying to understand, but it doesn't stop it from feeling like a kick to the stomach everytime she says it.

 

A friend of mine (though she is supportive) said that because I've never been with anyone, that there is a chance I might not like being with a girl. It kind of threw me off.

 

The only thing that happens repeatedly is that one of my friends often calls gay people "fags", but I still somewhat like him regardless. He wouldn't do it around me if he knew, at least.

 

i have only one good friend who might say something hurtful but he tries his best not to so all respect to him.

 

Every weekend I go to my friend's apartment and it is unbelievable how much the other residents talk about homosexuality in a negative context. It's mentioned in 1/3 of their sentences. They talk about it more than I do. It's really annoying but if I say anything to call them in it, I'll get yelled at, called a fag, and they'll just say it's a free country and they can say whatever they want. Which that's true but they're very insensitive.

 

My family is worse than my friends, my friends are really chill about me being trans. Yesterday when I told my stepmum that I didnt want to go skiing on the last day of our holiday bc my dysphoria was a bitch and I didn't even want to get up let alone go skiing with a bunch of people i already suspect know about me, she told me I would ruin the holiday if i wasnt there. Then i said that I j felt shit, she asked me if it was bc someone had said something about me being a girl.

But how would they know unless she had told them?

I dont, hopefully, look like a girl...

also other people where we were staying had started calling me she and i j wanted to curl up and cry.

I hate them.

~Liam x

 

Friends don't say hurtful things. They may say difficult or challenging things, possibly pointedly inquiring things...but not hurtful things.

 

If a friend of mine said an ignorant thing, I'd drop them.

 

^ well damn, that's scurry

 

My friends use a lot of slurs, "faggot" being the most popular, I try to tell them not to say it in the nicest way possible, but I used to use it in the past which kind of makes me a hypocrite. In my eyes its the equivalent to saying the N word, but they only say it as a joke and there is no meaning or malice behind their words.

 

Gay!