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Is it possible for a cis-boy to fall in love w/a T-girl..?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by edy, Apr 5, 2015.

  1. edy

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    ----Even if he knew her before she started to transition? Like, two classmates, and he knew her as a "boy" but now that she either transitioned or is starting to transition, is it possible for him to forget the first impression?
     
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    It is not unheard of. Though it is depending on the boy too. Some are fine with it, some are not.
     
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    Ok, let's say this particular guy is indeed attracted to transgendered girls, however, he happens to know the past of the girl that is just in front of him lol

    Maybe they were even friends.
     
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    Never say never so yes it is possible.
     
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    that would.. depend on his sexuality? If he's straight, bi or pan, sure he could, if he's gay, then I would generally advise against persuing it,
     
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    Jokes about guys just being horn dogs that only care about appearance aside, I would say, again, it is depending on the person. Some look beyond the past of the person before them, and accept that person as who they are now - they understand that what they see before was not the real thing, not the whole person. Some can't, and keep letting it gets in the way.

    So, best of luck for you, if you are into this guy. You just have to be closer with him and know his character, if he is the kind of person that let those kinds of things bother him.
     
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    That's the picture I was looking for. :lol:

    I say it's possible, if he's open-minded enough. Stigma against dating trans women is still there, of course, but the public is learning more, slowly.

    Some have conditions (must have srs, be passable, etc.)
     
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    Fixed.

    To answer your question, is it possible? Yes.

    But possible doesn't make something universal, only situational. There's several things to consider here, most of which has already been addressed.
     
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    It really just depends on the guy o:
     
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    Anything is possible.
     
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    I would say it's situational. A straight, cis guy can be in love with a neutral person who binds, so I wouldn't say it's not possible.
     
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    I'm in a relationship with a cis, straight identified male currently. So yes, it is definitely possible.
     
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    Did he know you before you started transitioning?
     
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    Anything is possible
     
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    I don't see how it's not possible.
     
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    This ultimately depends entirely on the person. Definitely possible! Obviously some people are more understanding of the concept of transgender to begin with. Then it depends on a lot of other things, such as their sexuality, how they view their sexuality, and then just how they view the person as a friend. Some people form platonic relationships and can never un-see them as platonic, other people can switch easily. I'm always a big proponent of a nice, open conversation (or multiple!) That's the only way you'll ever know. It can be posed less personally if necessary, as in "could you see yourself dating a trans girl" rather than "would you date me" because that is much easier to start with. I hope this helps!