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I came out and am going to see the person I came out to.

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by UnderTheRainbow, Apr 13, 2015.

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  1. UnderTheRainbow

    UnderTheRainbow
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    Sexual Orientation:
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    I came out to a family friend via messenger. He is out and about, has a nice boyfriend, and is REALLY talkative. All of which I like. April 20, I am going to do some STAAR testing where he works.(I go to online school.) The thing is, I am really quite uncomfortable about talking about it. There will be a lot of other online schoolers there too. Mark (he is the friend) seems to be a little luoder than most people at least to me. What if someone else is near me and hears. I don't know if anyone would react badly if they hear that.:help:

    This may just be seeing someone you came out to for the first time jitters.:lol:
     
    #1 UnderTheRainbow, Apr 13, 2015
  2. neecee

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    Hello! I don't think you should get yourself too worked up about it! :grin:
    I'm sure if you mention to your friend Mark about how uncomfortable it may make you to talk about things like your sexuality in a public place, that he'll do his best to keep it quiet and on the dl to make sure you're comfortable!
    It's all about how you feel in that moment. ^_^
    I hope you have a really great time hanging out with him, and have a fun time.
    Also, best of luck on your testings!! (*hug*)
     
    #2 neecee, Apr 13, 2015
  3. Psaurus918

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    I felt the same way to be honest with you. The kid I first came out to is very out and openly gay and I told him via text but I still felt weird seeing him in person. He lives 4 hours away so it was a couple weeks between telling him and him visiting
     
    #3 Psaurus918, Apr 13, 2015
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