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What is Love to You

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Justinian20, Apr 20, 2015.

  1. Justinian20

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    As a guy who is currently in love with who I think is the perfect guy. I want to know what you guys think love is and what does love mean to you.
     
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    love is for fools who fall behind and I'm somewhere in between. Thought about that song when I saw this
     
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    Love is counterproductive, and it should thank its lucky stars it's not a manmade invention.

    Otherwise, it would be the silliest one of all-time.
     
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    love is something that makes the best of us crazy whether that is a good or bad thing is up to the individual, but it also means we are strong enough to feel passionate towards someone. It's the power to find some else more fabulous than ourselves and it's someone that you needs so much that no matter how much they piss you off you WILL come back.
    It's a powerful thing true love. It comes to everyone, for some people it doesn't last long, but in the end most people will find another true love. However, there is ONLY ONE soul mate.
     
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    I don't really wanna know what love is...
     
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    Love is root of all evil.

    Hitler loved his country and did what he thought best.

    Jeffrey Dahmer loved those men so he wanted to turn them into zombies so they wouldn't leave him alone again.

    Many little people with little minds loved the God so much, did what little people with twisted minds told them so they can gain favor of his love.

    Boy loves a girl. Girl loves another boy. Boy thinks if he can't have her, no one will.

    If you look close enough, hard enough... you can see Death lurking in the skirts of Love. Do not be surprised to find mangled bodies of logic and reason on her wake... Love is a ruthless companion.
     
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    People spend too much time trying to quantify love and don't realize that defeats the point of it. The essence of love is a feeling so powerful you can't explain it in words. That's when it's genuine anyway
     
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    Who needs love when I have coffee, tea, books, internet, music and tv shows?
     
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    Love is putting somebody else's needs before yours. It's when you constantly feel happy when even a thought of your love comes to your mind. Love is something that makes you crazy, something that makes you nervous, something that makes you happy, all at the same time. If it weren't for love, we as humans would not see the goodness in the world. Love is putting flaws behind, because in your eyes, greatness over powers the flaws. Love is love, there's not much more to be said than that :wink:
     
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    One-sided, painful torture.
     
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    Something really strong you feel. Like gravity! Maybe that's why it's hard to stay away from my crush? But love is like a best friend but better. I don't know how to describe it?
     
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    Love is hard to describe. It has different meanings for different people. My definition of love is that whenever you look at that special person, it's like watching the entire universe right before your eyes. It's beautiful, and it's wonderful. The feeling of pure ecstasy runs through your whole being whenever you're with them. And you just want to freeze time and wish that that moment would last forever. That's what love is.
     
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    Love is what it is! Don't waste any time quantifying it, just enjoy it while it lasts.
     
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    So obviously we're strictly speaking about romantic love?

    For me, right now, I'm thinking love is dinner in front of the tv, cuddling if we feel like it, sleeping in the same bed if we feel like it, raising kid(s) as a cohesive unit, and otherwise doing what makes us happy, together or not.
     
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    Baby, Don't hurt me, Don't hurt me no more.
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    Love is the most beautiful feeling, and also sometimes, the most painful. Love is not just the feeling of attraction, it's so much more.
    Loyalty, compassion, commitment, acceptance of both your and your partner's flaws.
    Love is putting their needs first sometimes, but not to the point where you lose sight of who you are yourself.
    Love is to accept someone as a huge part of your life, but not to make them your reason for life.
    Love is to find someone you makes you happy, who accepts your flaws, who is loyal to you, and who makes you a big part of their life.
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