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A matter of size

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Miaplacidus, May 26, 2007.

  1. Miaplacidus

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    I've wondered about the "size thing" for years now. I don't understand why most straight guys are so attracted by big breasts, or why some girls and gay/bi guys are so attracted by big penises.

    I am sexually attracted by both guys and girls, although I prefer the former. However, I am definitely not into women with obscenely big breasts, nor into guys with huge penises. In my opinion, very big breasts (especially "artificially enlarged" ones) make the woman look disproportionate, and often very vulgar.

    Regarding big penises... I don't consider them an aesthetic problem, but if my boyfriend had a really big penis, I probably would be an exclusive top. I think it would hurt a lot instead of feeling good. However, I don't think I'd have a problem with pleasuring him in other ways.

    What are your opinions on the subject? I'd like to hear from the girls too. Do you like big breasts on other women? Why?

    Thanks.
     
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    To put this on a purely aesthetic level- I would never fall in love with someone for their tits. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    I dislike extremely large breasts and agree with your statement that they make women seem disproportionate and vulgar. It's kind of like, AHH DON'T KNOCK MY EYE OUT WITH ONE OF THOSE THINGS!!!! Especially when they're fake. I don't like implants in general, as they always look weird- kind of like you're shoplifting cantaloupes.
    On the opposite end of the spectrum, I dislike small breasts. It's kind of unfeminine, though women have no control over that...
    Somewhere in the realm of C or D, or even DD depending, is nice, in my opinion. If you have a smaller frame, (though I'm generally attracted to curvy women with lots of fluff) A's or B's don't look horrible. It really depends on your body type...but again, my preference is a curvaceous woman with C-DD breasts.
     
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    A man in Melbourne is currently completely his thesis based around the male fixation on penis size, and how it relates to masculinity. While he wouldn't disclose the results of any of his experiments / studies (as they're incomplete at the moment), the whole idea is based around how we are biologically wired to be attracted to somebody.

    For example: we are biologically wired to be attracted to "healthy" people - the theory is that if we are attracted to someone healthy, we can then breed with that person to create healthy offspring (survival of the fittest).

    Of course there are exceptions, but this is why features such as muscles and tans are generally seen as attractive (muscles are a sign of fitness, and tans are a sign of healthy, vitamin enriched skin). Likewise, during the medieval period, the perception of healthy was overweight, as food was scarce. To be overweight, meant that you had lots of food and the ability to survive, and as such, it was seen as an attractive quality.

    So while big genitals might not be seen as "healthy" exactly, they are unique to our gender, and play vital roles in sex (which is why they are linked to our perception of masculinity etc). Add to that society's view of "bigger is better" and you start to get an idea..
     
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    I do not like huge breasts or big...uh...male genitals(thanks to Dave). I like looking at them in porn movies or at beaches or pools but I'm not attract to them.

    Real big breasts are usually drooping and very loosely.
    Fake big breasts are very good shapes but I'm bit worry if the implants will break:eek:

    Big male genitals are good to stare at beach and very hot to watch them in porn movies but I am not sure if I'm gonna let a guy with huge genital fuck me.

    Oh but the size isn't matter to me at all.
     
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    Well - I was going to bring up the very common "bigger is better" credo - but Dave beat me to it.

    As far as breasts go - I definitely don't like huge ones - not am I turned on by silicon. I like them pert, natural and nicely shaped. :thumbsup:

    As far as penises go - has anyone noticed how some of these guys with huge penises seem to have all sort of problems achieving a full erection? Sorry - but I have to think that a more reasonable size that does "what it should" is better than a "floppy giant", hehe.

    Anyway - as long as mine "works" - I ain't gonna complain LOL. :lol:
     
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    If my head weren't swimming with a combination of allergy medication and allergies that can't be completely quelled by said medication, I'd offer my thoughts on the whole "why" topic, but at the moment, my own first name remains elusive to me....

    On a personal level, I'm a bit of an oddball with what I'm attracted to. I'm not attracted to womens' breasts at all, nor am I attracted to large penises. In fact, for me, smaller is better. What I'm most attracted to is personality, above every other quality. I know tons of people like to claim this, but it's the honest to god truth. It's the person I'm interested in, not their appearance.
     
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    I am not keen on larger penises. Average or a bit smaller is better.

    I would rather one that I can get in my mouth without feeling like I am going to break my jaw or choke on it!

    The most important thing though is that it works and how it is used. Size is not important.
     
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    Amen to that!
    Big is not better in my opinion, it's more awkward and a little intimidating to be honest.
    Especially when it comes to girth... length I can deal with, girth is awkward
     
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    Well I do like women with noticable breasts. like maybe c or d, but bigger than that is too fake. I don't like them spilling out of a loose bikini either. i prefer a little clevage showing through a shirt. I'm a bit of a perv though. I catch myself staring to intesnsely sometimes and i must remind myself that not every girl is gay. :eek: I don't look at butts at all though. straight men of color seem to like larger women with huge butts, but I don't at all. I hate skinny girls. they look like a bag of bones. I like women with a nice figure and some meat on their bones and some fat around their curves. it looks natural. and most of the time women like taht have perfect breasts. not overly huge, but enough for clevage. hey didn't i say i wasa bit of a perv? :rolleyes: :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    When i was dating guys i definately got intimidated with huge penis'. It was like :dry: "how am i ever gonna fit that in my mouth" lol haha. I thought an average size was more "comfortable". As for girls i definately hate huge breasts, i agree that it does looks deformed. I like fit gurls and maybe a size B is good. But I'm more of a butt person :slight_smile:
     
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    I don't like women with big breasts either I like women with smaller breasts I just don't find a girl attractive if they have huge breasts but its not about their breasts anyway I pay more attention to personality than anything else but looks help.
    Sam
     
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    wow what a thread...lol
     
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    i have a very curvy body, huge firm ass and average size breasts, i just wish women wouldnt try to get with me just for that, and i hate when men look! personally i like breasts the same size as mine, boobs shouldnt be big, they should be a nice mouthful mmm lol and i like an ass i can squeeze ;o)
     
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    I don't care about size really. The guys I've been with have mostly had pretty big penises, but that's entirely coincidence, not preference.

    I agree with Sugar. They're sometimes kinda intimidating.
     
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    Above all, I'm attracted to proportion. Next up, a large size. However, as others have stated, playing with something huge sounds troublesome. Though, I wouldn't know because I'm a virgin.

    Getting graphic: Being able to suck the majority of a (medium/smaller) penis sounds sexier than reaching only the tip of a monster.

    Around 5.5" sounds ideal to me.

    I thought the majority are attracted to large sizes, but reading this thread makes me think not.
     
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    I have read in the magazine, and they say, the bigger the better. But I think that the bigger the easier to get hurt^^

    Well, when we look at some thing taht is bigger than our eyes, we'll piss off, because they are too big and will freak us off, and besides, most of us are young

    Hmmm, talking about "sucking", well, if you can handle it, you shouldnt resist it,

    Well, you can deep throat if anyone can
     
  17. I agree, bigger would be way too awkward. Average or smaller would be more preferable in my opinion rather than something so big and long you can use it as a coat rack.
     
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    Aaaahahahahaha^^
     
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    lol i love this thread :slight_smile:
     
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    :lol: