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Long distance relationships?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Andrew99, Apr 21, 2015.

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Would you do a long distance relationship?

Poll closed May 2, 2015.
  1. Yes

    54.5%
  2. Maybe/I dunno

    20.0%
  3. No

    25.5%
  1. Andrew99

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    Would you do one?
     
  2. iamgroot

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    Nah

    My ex moved to the midwest for medschool.
    I wasn't ready to move with him.
    Would be too hard.
    We said bye bye.

    -AL​
     
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    Depends on the distance, how often I'd get to see him, and whether the distance would be something temporary or permanent.
     
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    I've tried it before. What sucks is that I got really jealous, and I had every right to. They ended up together, and I ended up being a single lady, but well, I'd say he just missed out on the best thing on Earth. :icon_razz (Really, don't take me seriously.) But yeah, I would.
     
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    I would for sure. If things got real serious I'd want to move or them to move closer though
     
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    I would and have. It was nice to have someone miles away from you who and at the end of the day would want to talk to you. But it would depend to me on how long and how well you really know them...:icon_wink
     
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    Before I would of said YEP absolutely, but these days I'm a bit more hesitant; the person would have to seriously be worth it.
     
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    I am in one, actually. It's pretty bad, at times.
     
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    If it's the right girl I guess I would give it a go! Being in a different Country is a bit different though i've got to admit! I guess if she feels like the ''one'' I probably wouldn't care about distance at all!
     
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    I'm currently in a long distance relationship. It's not easy, and we've made sacrifices and had rough moments. But if the person is really worth it, you do what you need to do to be with them. Even if you only get to see them once a month, or once every couple months.
     
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    Bingo. This is exactly what I am going to say.
     
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    Since there apparently aren't any decent lgbt people around where I live, a hypothetical relationship that is long distance would probably be the only option anyways, so I see potential there...
     
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    I would be willing to give it a try, provided there was the mutual goal to eventually close the distance between us. I couldn't do it indefinitely. But I do believe LDR can work and can be beautiful relationships, so why not me?
    Of course, I've never been in a situation online where I could meet someone and fall in love with them, so I don't know how it would happen.
     
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    Never been in a relationship so :shrug: but if ever I'll have a boyfriend from a far away land, I'll give it a shot
     
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    arfff

    since i cant afford to get caught right now, seems like online dating or long distance is my only option...
     
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    Depends on how much that person means to me. I've been in a few in the past (nothing serious, it was more of an online fling?) and it never turned out well. Slowly lost touch in the end, so I think it really depends on how much you love each other and how important you deem each other to be.
     
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    Been there before. It was hard, but love is love.
    I'd appreciate it more if I can see the guy/girl I like in person, though.
     
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    No, I couldn't do it. I'd like to actually spend time with someone I care about.

    However, if I'm in a relationship and I/he had to move far away for whatever reason, I would stay and try it. But that's different, as you already know each other.
     
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    I put no.... If I were with someone for a while and then one of us had to move somewhere not too far, I may do it, if it's temporary. We could still visit. But, I wouldn't start a long distance relationship with someone online that I've never met in person.