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What's a weird thing you're insecure a about?

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  1. The Aquarius

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    Title says it all.

    Me for example, I'm very skinny and when I don't sit up straight my spine sort of sticks through my back and I don't think anyone else thinks about this. :/
     
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    My weight, just kidding...Umm, I don't like the color of my hair, it's too common...
     
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    People seeing my bra when I'm wearing it. It makes me feel too "open". And yes I consider it weird, at least in my school cuz no other girl has a problem with it.
     
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    My upper lip curves in such a way that it looks kind of like I have buckteeth. Any time I smile, it shows. I'm insecure about it, but nothing I can do about it and I won't avoid smiling lol
     
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    Damn near everything...sigh
     
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    Sometimes I'm kind of insecure about my taste in tv shows, music, etc. even though it's not that out of the ordinary. Just don't always like sharing that stuff with people I guess?
     
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    people seeing me bend over, crouch, or sit down. I don't quite know why, just feels wrong to me. And if my chewing is audible.
     
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    I don't like my nose structure, my skin color, and my muffin top

    Most of the time I really feel ugly [​IMG]
     
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    You wanna think yourself lucky you've got some!!!:icon_bigg
     
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    My body being what it is... (No matter what I do I'll always have a stronger and wider structure than average) I feel pretty insecure about doing or saying cute things, it'd be as weird as if Shaquill O'Neal were looking at you with BIG PINK manga eyes.

    Oh yeah, and my voice... I have a kinda deep voice but I'm constantly worrying about it sounding too childish... Even though it's deep and all you can easily spot that I'm still in my teens. If you add to that the fact that I never spoke fast... It really feels like my voice had evolved in order to be as calming as possible. The only times you can hear talk at a normal speed or even fast is when I'm talking about something I'm really interested in.

    So basically I'm insecure about me looking like a sleeping Grizzly that might kill you anytime.
     
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    My height... I hate being 6'1
     
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    I get really insecure when people say that I am too "family important" meaning when my friends wanna hang out i decline because I'm going out with my sis, Mema(grandma), my mom, or any of my close family members (aunts, uncles, cousins)(!)
     
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    Sometimes I stutter :grin: when nervous.
     
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    My voice. I get insecure about having a Spanish accent(I've avoided speaking Spanish), sounding monotone and childish. I also get insecure about my hair. I have way too much.
     
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    The random sneezing fits I get.
     
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    The loud gulping noise I make when I take a drink. My tonsils are gigantic so I'm blaming that. I can't make it quiet no matter how hard I try. I know it must be annoying.
     
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    Yes, music taste!! Omfg... I'm convinced I'm the only one who experiences this to such a degree.

    I do not know why, either. One time, years ago, I brought headphones to school and felt weird the entire time I was listening to music. I just had to turn it off and I never did it again. I don't understand the appeal of it.

    Recently, I've tried combating this little insecurity, but it doesn't help when any song I send to a friend (even if it has millions of likes and is a song that gave me goosebumps and contains comments of pure delight at its melodic tune) is remarked with a "wtf", "this is shit", no reply, etc. Some things are just better left unexplained, me thinks.
     
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    Same here, though I'm just 6'.
     
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    I have a defense mechanism for every one of my insecurities, some of them simple and others more complex. For starters, all of you guys way out there across the internet won't ever hear about the bad ones~ :wink:

    An example of a harmless one is my personal belongings, mostly my laptop and phone, being in someone elses hands. It isn't like they're going to find my porn or anything (because it's very carefully covered up and hidden away >_>) I just take this instant plunge into irrational unease whenever someone else is looking in my stuff, or, specifically in the case of my phone, whenever I can't feel it on me, since I tend to lose things easily
     
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    Whenever someone touches me and I flinch. If I'm not expecting it, I will flinch. No matter who it is and how I feel about them. I flinch like an animal whose owner kicked the shit out of it and everyone suspects I have some kind of trauma no matter what I say. My body just does this ... I guess it is naturally high strung or something.