Last weekend I went out to a gay club (called Legends) it was a lot of fun, I've never been to a gay club and I loved the atmosphere. A lot of the gays were really nice and straight forward, asking if I was top or bottom (I've only been top twice) they never bothered to ask what I was; gay or Bi but I tell them I'm Bi and they look at like, "who is this, where's he from?" lmfao to be honest I love that, it seems where live both hetero' and gays don't believe in Bisexuality which I don't bother getting into deep thoughts about, I like men and women intimately plane and simple, no beliefs needed. After that, all the people I met suddenly broke out in debate about why some of them believe it's real and why others believe it doesn't yet I (the only Bi there) sat back and drank my crown and coke. lol It was otherwise an amazing time, watching the debate was clearly the best part of my night. :icon_bigg
There are several things I love about being bi, but watching other people decide whether my orientation exists or not isn't one of them. I should probably loosen up, since what matters is that I know I exist. I'm glad you had a good time and took it so well. ^^
I don't understand why this "whether bi's exists?" is still an issue. Of course they do. Unless there is a world wide conspiracy of people claiming to like both genders when they actually like only one. It would be the most pointless and hard to implement conspiracy ever.
I agree. A lot of it is just coming from people that don't get it. There are sadly still a lot of people who believe that sexuality is a choice and that bi people are confused as to which they like more. I know that is not true but a lot of people still don't know that.
The question is, are we bisexual or are we just sexually opportunistic? But seriously, it does have it pros and cons
It always makes me happy to see people owning their sexuality and liking it. It's also kind of empowering feeling. I just like being bisexual because it's so damn fun! ~ Adrienne
For the record, I actually like monosexuals, as long as they like me. If they are going to be oppressive, then we have a problem. But my default position is to like gay folks unless I find a good reason not to.
Yes. ---------- Post added 24th Apr 2015 at 10:07 PM ---------- I think it's good to have or make friends with a similar sexual preference as your own or, if not, those who will accept it ... and you.
People here in the Philippines, when yah told them that you were BI they will going to ask you "you had a v-card oc a c*ck" like duhhh... I love being bi because I find girls more attractive than boys yayytttssss
Now that I have it figured out, I do like the fact that I am bi kind of, it's apart of who I am and I like me. If that makes sense? *laughs*
