Guys who wear wigs...

I don't personally think it matters much. Some people are not gonna like it, sure, but that goes for everything. There are also people out there who will either not care or like it.

If you like it, then wear it .

Anyways, I think it looks good on you.

 

I personally like your hair more short.

A wig would probably be a turn off for me for the most part since I prefer guys with a more natural look. I don't like dyed hair or makeup either, etc. In your case, I can't really tell it is a wig, so if I could not distinguish that it was a wig until told then I probably would get over it pretty quick. However, it would make me wonder why the person is uncomfortable with their natural hair. Being comfortable in your own skin is a turn on.

 

I have considered wearing wigs, simply because my hair never does what i want it to do. (and i want it longer). I'm not too fussed what another person does for their style, its their choice afterall.

 

I'd wear one of these.

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Honestly, I think you're right. It looks awesome. It doesn't even look like a wig. Had I seen you walking around, I would have assumed it was your hair.

After reading your post, a song by India Arie immediately popped into my head.

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You look awesome no matter which way you choose to wear your hair, and you really do rock the wig. Choose to wear your hair however you like, and don't be afraid to get creative.

 

I have to interject here. I just signed up to this forum because I am tired of reading negative comments about men wearing hair pieces. Especially from women or men who just don't understand how it feels to have a part of you taken away without your permission.

Btw the short wig looks great and I wouldn't be able to tell the difference and I'm very observant. I'm not a fan of straight hair on you, but that's just because of the style, I also would not be able to tell it was a wig.

Now something has to be said about how men are unfairly treated when it comes to hair loss. Men are expected in society to embrace hair loss and somehow hold onto their confidence like that's an easy thing to do. And that is absolute rubbish and that stereotype of "you are weak unless you embrace your flaws and wear them proudly" needs to end.

Self confidence is something that is very fragile and it can be shattered easily regardless of your gender or sexual preference.

firstly, it's entirely your choice if you want to wear a wig and you shouldn't need anyone's approval to make that decision. It's about taking back what was stolen from you and not ever being ashamed of it.

Second, some people just don't look good with a shaved head. Its got to do with the shape of your head and the size of your forehead. If you have a large or wide shaped face or large ears you will most likely look bad when you start to lose your hair. It's because it makes your face look wider than it is because you don't have the height of your hair to keep your face structure balanced. So for some men and women this is not a viable option.

Third, when you lose your hair it's not just about your confidence. There is a certain amount of satisfaction you get from changing hair styles and being able to do different things with your hair. It's all about choice and you completely lose this ability to choose what you want to do with your hair when you start to lose it.

You start to only wear one hair style because that's the only way that you can conceal bald spots and then you have society pointing out your flaws and making fun of you because you have a combover instead of shaving your head.

It's a double standard and it needs to stop.

Hair loss is a hereditary disease and it should be treated as such. People need to start having some sympathy for people who suffer with this disease. They did not choose this, it was something that was taken from them.

So all I can say is embrace your choices and never regret anything. Don't listen to the negative people out there who are sheep and can't think for themselves. If you want to shave your head and you like it that way then that's fine. And if you want to wear a hair piece then that's also fine. It's your decision and it's about looking good for yourself.

When you look in the mirror and aren't comfortable with what you see wether that be gender, hair loss, weight loss, you can make informed decisions to change those things about yourself to improve your confidence.

Lastly, as long as you love yourself on the inside then the other stuff doesn't matter. People should accept you for who you are and not the clothes you wear or what your hair looks like.

Much love xo

 

I personally don't mind wigs as long as they don't alter someone's appearance to an extreme degree. Yours looks natural and really nice on you - so for me I wouldn't mind it at all! I think you look fine with both hair styles.

In the end, if a wig is what would make someone happy - that would never stop me from being attracted to them. Honestly, if someone wants to wear a wig then good for them!

 

I think you look great either way.